Do you remember the frustration of waiting for your favorite movie to rewind on a VCR? Or the anticipation of Saturday mornings spent watching cartoons that only aired once a week? Think back to those late nights spent on the couch, eagerly awaiting Friday Night Videos. And let’s not forget the long lines outside movie theaters before Fandango changed the game. If you can recall the days of dial-up internet, you know the struggle of buffering videos and pages that took their sweet time to load. You likely weren’t clicking your mouse in impatience, but rather appreciating the art of waiting.
Waiting builds character, doesn’t it? That’s why it drives me up the wall when my kids complain about a brief commercial break. They often whine about amusement park lines that last no more than a few minutes or groan when we hit a red light. My husband, who has a bit of a lead foot, will admit they’ve inherited his impatience.
Now, I don’t want to come off as one of those “I walked five miles in the snow to get to school” parents, but let’s face it: Our children will never experience the anxiety of waiting by the phone for a special call. Do they even know what a busy signal sounds like? Those were the days when summer felt infinite, Christmas countdowns lasted forever, and waiting for the ice cream truck or the first pitch of a Mets game was a cherished tradition.
I confess, I’ve lost my ability to wait. What busy parent hasn’t felt the pressure of modern life, rushing from one task to another? We often resent the time wasted in a doctor’s office, especially when there’s no Wi-Fi, or the long lines at the grocery store. Instead of enjoying the moment, we mentally compile our to-do lists. It’s no surprise that our children, witnessing our frantic pace and multitasking, develop the same urgency to rush into the next event.
That’s why, with the summer still lingering for a few more weeks, I’m implementing a summer slowdown policy. Why not embrace a little laziness? Slowing down can be beneficial for both us and our kids, allowing us to savor the fleeting moments of summer. Maybe, just maybe, by taking it easy this season, we can help our kids appreciate the journey, rather than just the destination. After all, the process of growing up moves quicker than we ever anticipated.
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Summary
The importance of embracing the art of waiting during summer is highlighted, encouraging parents to slow down and appreciate life’s moments. As we navigate our busy lives, it’s crucial to instill this value in our children, fostering an appreciation for patience and the journey of growing up.
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