According to a recent survey conducted by Channel Mum, the trend of inviting guests into the delivery room is on the rise among new mothers. In fact, younger moms are allowing an average of eight family members and friends to join them during labor. Eight! Can you imagine?
Honestly, it’s hard to think of a more stressful scenario than being surrounded by eight of your closest relatives while you’re lying on an uncomfortable hospital bed, completely vulnerable. The reality of having a crowd in the delivery room can quickly shift from being a comforting thought to a chaotic nightmare. Mother-in-laws have become the most sought-after birth support, trailing only behind the partner and the mom herself. Moreover, nearly 25% of women are now sharing their childbirth experiences on social media, making the event feel even more public.
Siobhan Freegard, the founder of Channel Mum, shared with The Telegraph that “the younger generation is accustomed to documenting every facet of their existence. So, why not share the experience of giving birth? Many women view it as their greatest achievement and want to celebrate it with their loved ones.” However, this is one of those cases where the fantasy may not match the reality.
Sure, having friends around sounds appealing until boredom sets in, and someone pulls out their phone to play games. Or when nervous energy permeates the room. Unless every individual in that space is the epitome of calm, more people can lead to increased stress—and stress is the last thing you want during labor.
A study from 2004 titled “Do Not Disturb: The Importance of Privacy in Labor” highlighted that when a laboring woman feels threatened or disturbed, her body releases stress hormones that can stall labor. Just imagine the tension if your mother-in-law decides to comment on your figure or if your usually thoughtful friend brings in pizza that you can’t eat. Any form of chatter could easily become irritating in the heat of a contraction.
Furthermore, the survey indicated that having a larger audience can pressure moms into forgoing pain medication due to fear of judgment. Anything that complicates the birthing experience is a bad idea. Young moms, you really don’t need to turn your delivery room into a party zone. It’s far better to let guests wait until after the baby arrives and then bring them food, ginger ale, and maybe a foot spa for some well-deserved relaxation.
Trust me, this will make the experience much more manageable.
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In summary, it’s crucial to prioritize your comfort during childbirth and not feel pressured to have a crowd in the delivery room. Instead, focus on what truly matters—welcoming your new baby into the world.
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