A few summers back, while enjoying a getaway in New Jersey, I found myself facing an unexpected challenge: my youngest child had picked up lice. This wasn’t our first encounter with these unwelcome guests, and I was initially nonchalant about combing him out. However, I neglected to secure my own hair, and panic ensued when I discovered a critter making itself at home on my scalp. In a moment of desperation, I asked my eldest son if he would be willing to shave my long hair off, having just done the same for his brother. He hesitated but agreed to help if absolutely necessary. Thankfully, my friend Lisa from California was horrified by the idea and quickly arranged for a professional nitpicker to come to my rescue that evening. Crisis averted, and no need for a drastic haircut.
Fast forward two years: I was admiring my hair stylist, Chloe’s, stunning blue and black locks styled with an undercut—a trendy look that caught my eye. I thought about how freeing it would be to remove some of my own hair that I often struggled to style. But it felt like a huge leap, especially at my age! After months of contemplating this change, I finally made the decision to go for it. The sensation of the clippers gliding over the sides of my head was invigorating. The liberation I felt was beyond what I had anticipated! I even entertained the idea of shaving it all off for a fresh start and maybe even going blond. My mind swirled with possibilities, and I hadn’t even tapped into the world of creative graphics yet.
Once you step into the realm of the unknown, it opens up a whole new world of opportunities. I began to explore the idea of adding designs to my undercut, perhaps a floral motif or even my business logo. Chloe recommended I seek out a barbershop with a “Z” in its name, like “Buzz and Blades,” typically found in rougher neighborhoods. That advice was a bit discouraging. However, during my vacation this summer, I stumbled upon a place called “Rugged Cuts.” No “Z,” but their window boasted expertise in fades and graphics. I called to inquire, “Do you do women’s hair?”
“No.”
“I have an undercut, and I want graphics.”
“Okay. Come in.”
I decided to bring along my friend Amanda for moral support. The shop was a lively haven filled with young men and the scent of cigar smoke.
“Wow, you can smoke in here?” I remarked, surprised.
“Cigar shop next door,” was Amanda’s eye-roll response.
I was paired with a barber named Marco, who eagerly began shaving the sides of my head. “Do you have a design in mind?”
“Nope. Feel free to experiment!” Was I out of my mind? He stared at my freshly shorn hair, awaiting inspiration, then got to work. I was amazed at how he wielded the clippers almost like an artist with a chisel. Once he finished, he pulled out a straight-edge razor, and my heart raced.
“Have you ever made anyone bleed?” I asked, half-jokingly.
“Not anymore!” he replied with a chuckle.
The barbers around me chatted animatedly about an upcoming bachelor party, debating strategies to avoid any wedding-day fallout from their plans. The owner of the shop wondered aloud, “Do you think women talk about us like this?” If only he knew! I found it exhilarating to have my hair sculpted by a true artist while soaking in the spirited atmosphere of the barbershop—so different from the more subdued vibe of a salon.
Marco was remarkably skilled with the razor, carving intricate designs into my scalp. Once he finished, he dusted my head with talc—something I had always been curious about. He looked at me expectantly and asked, “Do you like it?”
“It’s fabulous!” I replied, feeling a surge of confidence.
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In summary, stepping out of your comfort zone can lead to exciting transformations. My journey to a bold haircut not only changed my hairstyle but also opened my eyes to a vibrant new world of creativity and camaraderie that I had never experienced before.
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