In May 2020, a remarkable story unfolded about a single dad named Michael and his son, Leo, who had recently relocated to Charlotte, North Carolina. Michael, having been a foster parent for several years before adopting Leo, aspired to continue fostering children when they moved. However, the transition to a new state meant they had to navigate a lengthy approval process, which took nearly a year. Just as the approval came through, the world was hit by stay-at-home orders due to the pandemic.
“I figured the chances of getting a new placement were virtually nonexistent,” Michael reflected, noting how all agencies were shuttered and families had been in lockdown for weeks. Surprisingly, just when he thought there would be no opportunities, a call from a social worker changed everything.
“Would you consider taking in a 7-year-old boy during quarantine?” the social worker asked, providing some background on the child. Although taken aback, Michael listened intently to the urgent need for a safe home during such uncertain times. Faced with the realities of quarantine, he struggled with the decision—concerned for his own and Leo’s safety as they had already been isolated for over two weeks.
Questions flooded his mind. Why did this child need a home now? What was his story? Michael wrestled with the “what-ifs” but ultimately knew he needed to discuss the situation with Leo.
Family Discussions Matter
When Michael approached Leo, who was engaged in video games, he shared the unexpected request. “How old is he?” Leo inquired.
“Seven,” Michael replied.
“Great! He’ll probably be annoying, but at least he can play games with me,” Leo responded, easing Michael’s worries slightly. “Can he go biking with me when he comes?” Leo added, prompting Michael to realize they could embrace this opportunity together.
That moment solidified Michael’s resolve; they had to welcome the boy into their home. “It warmed my heart to see Leo so excited about sharing his world,” he thought. Despite the uncertainty of the pandemic, Michael was determined to provide a safe haven for the new arrival.
New Beginnings
Hours later, the little boy arrived, and Michael was struck by how small and uncertain he appeared. The moment the two boys met, the atmosphere shifted—the newcomer’s beaming smile lit up the room as they introduced themselves. Within moments, they were engrossed in building elaborate Lego creations together. It was a pivotal moment for Michael; he knew he had made the right choice.
The pandemic had heavily impacted the foster care system, creating fears of virus transmission, court shutdowns, and halted in-person visits. Michael was acutely aware of the vulnerabilities foster children faced during such crises. “A home is not truly a blessing unless it is shared, even in the hardest of times,” he stated.
As May is National Foster Care Month, it presents an opportunity for everyone to extend kindness to families and children in need. If you’re unable to foster, consider supporting others by delivering gift cards, offering meals, or reaching out to local foster care agencies for assistance.
For Michael, Leo, and their new family member, they continue to thrive together. At the time of this writing, they were excitedly preparing to grow their family again with the addition of a new puppy.
In summary, Michael’s story exemplifies the courage and compassion that can emerge during challenging times. His commitment to fostering a child in need during the pandemic highlights the importance of family and community support.
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