Being a parent can often feel overwhelming. There are moments when I run the vacuum cleaner, hoping to encourage my children to play independently in their rooms. There are times I find myself sneaking a treat in the kitchen after claiming we ran out. Sometimes, I might postpone bath time for a few days. In moments of frustration, I have to stifle my expressions and silently mouth exasperated words. Occasionally, I agree to play an elaborate game with my little ones, only to find excuses to delay.
There are instances when I drive to a fast-food restaurant far from home simply to align with nap schedules. I might tell my partner I’m in the restroom while I’m actually just taking a moment for myself in solitude. I may promise to join in on a show, only to drift off to sleep instead. The thought of consuming one more pretend cookie can be quite overwhelming. Often, I might say, “Just a minute!” only to take much longer. At times, I even pretend that the music they love is missing from our collection. There are moments I raise my voice when a calm request would suffice.
Yet, amidst these struggles, there are countless joyful moments. We occasionally play educational games together that truly bring me joy. I find immense happiness watching my children ride their bikes, their laughter echoing in the air. Nature walks often reveal delightful treasures like pinecones, and I cherish the times they assist me in preparing dinner, leading to delicious outcomes. Watching them create music together makes me want to dance alongside them, and I often find myself laughing uncontrollably during games of Simon Says. Running errands sometimes feels like an outing with friends, and I love to peek at them during our pre-dinner blessings. Our car rides filled with singing together are always invigorating.
Parenthood has its ebbs and flows; sometimes it feels like a daunting task, while other times it flows effortlessly. Regardless of the challenges, my love for them is unwavering.
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In summary, while parenting can be challenging and sometimes exhausting, the moments of joy and connection with my children make it all worthwhile.