Some friendships ebb and flow, while others stand the test of time. We have those childhood companions, the college buddies with whom we embraced our wild side, and the fellow moms who supported us through the chaos of new motherhood. Then there are the colleagues we share quick lunches with and those acquaintances we keep in touch with through mutual friends.
But then there’s us.
We’ve been inseparable for what feels like a lifetime, and here we are, still together. As other friendships have faded for various reasons, we’ve remained steadfast. It’s almost as if we’re glued together, and I couldn’t be more thankful for that.
Life has become busier and more complex, making it harder to maintain friendships compared to the days when we could just stroll down the hall for some heart-to-heart. Yet, through it all, you remain my person. You always have been, and you always will be.
We’re best friends because I don’t feel the need to tidy up before you come over. You don’t judge me for the crumbs on my kitchen counter or the lingering odor that sometimes pervades my bathroom. Just like I overlook the dust bunnies and smeary windows at your place. We do, however, notice the cute new throw pillows from Target and the framed picture of us that sits proudly on your mantel.
Our bond thrives because we can embrace our weirdness without feeling awkward. Small talk isn’t our thing; we’d rather text than call. We share uncontrollable laughter when someone takes a tumble and can comfortably exist in the same space, scrolling through social media or responding to work emails without a hitch. Simply put, we cherish each other’s company.
We’re best friends because we allow ourselves to be vulnerable, having seen each other in all our imperfect glory. I’ve felt your post-surgery scars, and you’ve witnessed my clumsiness more times than I can count. We’ve given each other no-holds-barred opinions while trying on swimsuits and held each other’s hair back during bouts of nausea—whether from too many cocktails, morning sickness, or chemotherapy. We’ve shared bras, makeup, and countless experiences.
Even when we have disagreements or unintentionally hurt one another, we forgive easily, knowing that our intentions are rooted in love and care.
Despite our differing parenting approaches—whether it’s about breastfeeding, sleep schedules, or the intricacies of cutting grapes—we share core beliefs about raising children. We both value giving our kids space to explore, partly because we believe in independence and partly because, let’s face it, we’re a tad lazy. When our families gather, we send the kids off to play so we can catch up in peace.
We rely on our distinct flavors of humor—your sarcasm and my penchant for swearing—to navigate the chaos of life. We believe in giving people the benefit of the doubt and assuming good intentions, even when things get tough.
We’ve been each other’s rocks through breakups, cross-country relocations, and serious family health issues without missing a beat. We’ve laughed until we cried (and let’s be honest, maybe even peed a little).
Our tastes align in many aspects—books, TV shows, and movies—but we also find joy in our differences. You introduced me to Parks and Recreation, and I got you hooked on Schitt’s Creek. We bond over our shared love for pop culture, quoting Arrested Development and The Office. We both roll our eyes at Pride and Prejudice (sorry, fans) and agree that 50 Shades of Grey deserves all the eye rolls and cringe emojis.
We trust each other with our deepest secrets. We’ve celebrated each other’s milestones, from engagements to pregnancy announcements, and even snuck in drinks at the hospital after our children were born. Our late-night phone calls and lengthy text exchanges are a testament to our enduring connection.
Reflecting on what makes a friendship last, I believe it’s a blend of mutual respect, familiarity, and a sprinkle of that unexplainable magic. Our friendship wasn’t just a chance encounter; it was meant to be.
Even if we go days, weeks, or months without a face-to-face chat, the moment we reunite, it feels like returning home. Despite the challenges and messiness that friendships can bring (just like any relationship), we’ve held on to each other. We’ve stuck together not just out of love, but because we genuinely enjoy each other’s company. And let’s be real—we know too much about one another to ever let go.
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In summary, true friendships are rare and precious, characterized by unconditional support, shared experiences, and the ability to weather life’s storms together. Through thick and thin, I’m grateful for our enduring bond.