Recently, I took my kids on a trip to my grandmother’s hometown in the Mississippi Delta. They were fascinated by the house she grew up in and the stories of her childhood antics, including dancing on the icebox in her parents’ grocery store. But what struck them the most was the stark contrast of poverty they witnessed: dilapidated homes, shuttered storefronts, and a noticeable absence of the comforts they often take for granted. Like any curious children, they started asking questions: Where are the schools? What jobs do people have if businesses are closing down? Is there even a chance to play Minecraft here?
For my partner and me, this trip sparked an important conversation about what we’re teaching our children about money—not just the mechanics of saving or budgeting, but the deeper implications of what money means in life. How should they perceive it? What role should it play in their lives? As we navigated these questions, we came up with some key insights:
- If choosing between a $15 item and a $25 one doesn’t require much thought, you’re in a fortunate position.
- Remember: people create wealth; wealth does not define who you are.
- Money impacts behavior, but it’s only one of many factors that influence how we act.
- No one wants to be judged based on their financial status—neither should you.
- Money is relative; $5 to you might feel like $50 to someone else. So, think twice before casually discussing your financial woes if you have food on the table.
- If you’re out with friends and order drinks, be prepared to cover your own share. And if someone consistently orders only appetizers, consider suggesting a more budget-friendly spot next time.
- Don’t assume that the wealthiest friend will always treat you. If they do, that’s great, but expecting it can sour friendships.
- If an outing is beyond your means, it’s better to stay home. One second of self-pity is understandable, but then move on. You have friends, a job, and the ability to make your own fun.
- Never apologize for your financial situation, whether you’re thriving or struggling.
- There will always be someone richer or poorer than you. Focus instead on whether you have what you need to be happy.
- Cash is often the simplest form of payment. A wise friend once told me this, and she was spot on. Financial transactions are clear-cut, unlike the complex emotional debts that can arise in relationships.
- Very few things in life are truly “free.” If a friend offers you a service without charge, it might come with emotional strings attached. Reflect on whether you’re accumulating emotional debt.
- If you reach a point where you can afford anything you desire, that’s fantastic! But never forget the hard work it took to get there. Keep in mind the lessons learned during tougher times, as they shape your perspective on money.
Yes, even if it means sacrificing a little Minecraft.
These lessons are foundational for guiding our kids toward a healthy relationship with money while fostering resilience and empathy.
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Summary
In this article, we discussed important lessons about money that can help children develop a healthy perspective on finances. From understanding the relativity of money to recognizing the emotional complexities that can accompany financial transactions, these insights aim to foster resilience and empathy in young minds.
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