What’s the real issue with embracing self-love?
Men and women have long faced different societal expectations, particularly in arenas like sports. While men are celebrated for their victories, women are often criticized for exhibiting the same enthusiasm. A recent example comes from British news presenter, Alex Johnson, who tweeted, “Ms. Carter certainly has a high opinion of herself. Excited to see our team put that ego in check.” Although many dismiss Johnson’s comments, acclaimed author, Lisa Thompson, took a stand against such disparaging remarks aimed at women.
“’Ms. Carter certainly has a high opinion of herself,’” Thompson reflected on her social media. “Let’s take a moment to consider why that’s deemed offensive. Is it because some men feel threatened by confident women?” Earlier this year, Thompson wrote an insightful piece in a well-known publication about how women often downplay their successes, saying things like, “Oh, this small achievement? It’s nothing special!” instead of embracing their accomplishments with pride.
Thompson pointed out the double standards that successful women face: they shouldn’t appear boastful or overly celebratory, as they should just be grateful for the opportunity to compete. Moreover, when they express frustration, they’re often labeled as “too emotional.”
She emphasized this harmful bias, stating, “Throughout my travels, I’ve been discussing how vital women’s narratives are—how speaking truth to power can shake up the status quo, even if it makes the powerful uncomfortable. This incident reminded me that a woman who confidently occupies her space, who is unapologetic in her achievements, is perceived as a threat by certain individuals.”
Thompson praised Carter, encouraging more women to celebrate their successes in whatever manner resonates with them. Instead of defaulting to the “female tendency for modesty,” we should inspire our daughters to recognize that they deserve to take up space, that their victories are as significant as those of their male counterparts, and that they shouldn’t diminish themselves for anyone. This is essential for fostering a culture of empowerment and self-worth.
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In summary, Lisa Thompson’s insights remind us that women should feel empowered to celebrate their achievements without apology. The societal double standards must be addressed, and women should be encouraged to step into their power confidently.