On my first day as a freshman at university, I had no idea that two incredible women would profoundly impact my life. One was a quick-witted individual studying alongside me, while the other was another quick-witted gal who moved into the dorm directly across the hall.
As the months passed, we forged a strong bond, navigating the challenges of being away from home for the first time and sharing a mutual disdain for those dreadful school uniforms. Late-night laughter and wild adventures turned us into inseparable friends. Fast forward two decades, and we’re still thick as thieves.
Those remarkable ladies have blossomed into successful professionals and wonderful mothers. Despite not seeing each other as often as we’d like, they are my go-to people. In the event of a family crisis at an ungodly hour, they’re the ones I’d reach out to, and while I wish I could say they’d rescue me from jail, the reality is they’d probably be right there with me!
They have left an indelible mark on my heart and have shown me what true friendship means—without any of the sentimental fluff. They embrace me, imperfections and all. On my toughest parenting days, when I call them from my closet, they don’t just pick up; they respond with, “Girl, same here!” when I confess I’m not always keen on being around my kids. Their love is unconditional, and I reciprocate that feeling wholeheartedly.
Just as couples often have vow renewal ceremonies to reaffirm their commitment, I believe we best friends deserve a similar pledge. After all, romantic partners may come and go, but our girlfriends? If you’ve supported each other through thick and thin, they’re with you for life—no questions asked.
My Pledge to My College BFFs
And so, here’s my pledge to my college BFFs and all the incredible friends I’ve made along the way:
- I won’t judge you when you admit your kids can be little terrors. Because let’s face it: kids can be real pains.
- I vow to never invite you to a gathering where you have to buy overpriced jewelry, leggings, or any other ridiculous items in my kitchen.
- If you’re having a rough day, I’ll always offer you a glass of wine. And if it’s only 9 a.m. and you accept, I’ll pour two glasses and happily join you for a day drink, so you don’t feel awkward.
- I promise to be there when you’re upset with your partner, and I’ll hate him alongside you—only to like him again once you’re over it.
- I’ll be honest when you ask if that new outfit flatters you. I expect the same honesty in return.
- In times of loss, I will show up with food and help tackle your laundry. I’ll stay up late to lend a listening ear, whatever you need, babe.
- I’ll acknowledge that some weeks, our communication may consist of silly memes exchanged throughout the day.
- I’ll never spill the beans about that one night when you got so tipsy that you ended up in the bushes (and on your pants).
- If I hear someone bad-mouthing you, I’ll shut that down immediately. No one talks trash about my friends.
- I’ll always pull my weight in carpooling. I may not be dressed and might be late, but I’ll still take your kids to soccer without complaint.
- I won’t think any less of you for calling me about that time you had an embarrassing issue or when you sneezed and peed a little. I’ve been there too, and there’s no room for judgment here.
- If you have a dream or a passion, let me know. I’ll do everything I can to help you achieve it. I’ll always be your biggest supporter.
- I’ll point out when I see you heading down a risky path, even if it means you’ll be upset with me for crossing a line.
- When we argue, I’ll strive to see things from your perspective—even if it means admitting I was in the wrong. I’ll apologize sincerely when I hurt your feelings.
- I’ll love you through your missteps and remind you that they don’t define who you are.
- I’ll help you reconnect with the carefree version of yourself from before kids when life felt more adventurous.
- I’ll cherish the fact that you’ve played a role in shaping who I am today.
- I’ll always value our friendship and proudly call you my friend. I’ll be here with a hug, a beer, or a Band-Aid—whatever you need. I keep our memories close and our secrets even closer, just like all best friends do.
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Summary
This heartfelt friendship pledge captures the essence of true companionship, highlighting unconditional support, shared laughter, and the commitment to stand by each other through life’s ups and downs. It’s a celebration of the bonds that last a lifetime, reinforcing the idea that best friends are there for you, no matter what.