In a move that has sparked significant debate, the director of a small independent school in Minneapolis decided to take a group of middle and high school students on a field trip to a sex toy shop without obtaining parental consent. Her intention was to create a safe space for students to explore human sexuality, but is a store filled with colorful dildos and bondage gear really the best environment for this kind of education? After all, they’re bound to find out about flavored lube eventually—why not at age 11?
At Gaia Democratic School, a tiny institution catering to students from kindergarten through 12th grade, around a dozen students participated in the outing to the Smitten Kitten adult shop. Director Clara Thompson told a local news outlet, “What I saw happening was wonderful because kids were able to engage with sex educators without any shame.” While this intention may seem noble, it raises some serious questions about parental involvement and consent. A permission slip indicating parental approval for such an unconventional educational setting should have been standard practice.
The store’s owner remarked that it’s left to parents to decide when and how to engage with their resources. It seems odd that any school, regardless of its private status, would take students off campus for an outing without proper parental authorization—especially to a place like this.
One concerned parent, Lisa Martinez, who withdrew her children from the school upon learning about the trip, expressed her frustration: “This is a serious breach of trust. You can’t just erase those images from their minds.” Her daughters, aged 11 and 13, were part of the group that visited the store.
Director Thompson later commented, “It was certainly the first time we have taken that kind of field trip, and it will likely be our last.” While she may feel bad about the situation, it’s likely that the parents who trusted this private institution with their children’s education feel even worse about the lack of judgment displayed here.
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In summary, while sex-positive education is crucial for teens, it is essential to involve parents in the conversation, especially when it comes to unconventional educational trips.
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