Since high school, I’ve listened to women discuss the heightened sexual desire they often experience just before their periods. For many, this surge in horniness can be so strong that it’s hard to resist the urge to get intimate at any given moment. I’ll admit, a commercial for cleaning products once got me in the mood!
While not every woman feels this way during her menstrual cycle — our bodies can be quite complex — Dr. Sarah Blake, an OB/GYN in New York City, explains that the increase in blood flow to the pelvic area can enhance genital sensitivity, leading to more intense orgasms during this time.
However, there’s an undeniable stigma surrounding period sex. One of the main reasons is the messiness involved. The thought of saying, “Hold on, let me take out my tampon and grab a towel,” can certainly kill the mood. But it’s important to recognize that period sex is perfectly normal and can be incredibly enjoyable for some. Feeling uneasy about discussing it shouldn’t prevent women from experiencing those heightened sensations if that’s what they desire.
Interestingly enough, menstrual blood can serve as a natural lubricant, potentially enhancing pleasure for both partners. Plus, orgasms can help relieve menstrual cramps, making it a win-win scenario. Just a word of caution: while many believe that pregnancy during menstruation is unlikely, it is indeed possible.
Discussing the idea of period sex with your partner beforehand can also create a more comfortable atmosphere. A simple opener like, “Hey, it’s that time of the month, but I’m really in the mood tonight—are you up for it?” can set the stage for intimacy. Many couples find that the mess isn’t an issue, especially since showering together afterward can be a fun and relaxing experience.
For those who might be hesitant, consider taking the plunge in the shower or bath; it simplifies clean-up significantly. Women often feel societal pressure to avoid intimacy while menstruating, but if you’re interested in exploring this side of your sexuality, having an open conversation with your partner can lead to a fulfilling experience.
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In summary, period sex is a natural and healthy part of many women’s lives. Embracing it can lead to greater pleasure and intimacy, so don’t shy away from discussing it with your partner.