We’ve all seen those commercials portraying women effortlessly engaging in activities while supposedly managing their period. These ads often depict women doing lunges or dancing in white shorts as if their menstrual cycle is a mere afterthought. While we celebrate female empowerment and try not to let our periods hold us back, the reality is that they can create obstacles that are hard to ignore. After three decades of dealing with this monthly visitor, I’ve learned that there are some things that just don’t mesh well with menstruation. Here are five everyday struggles that can feel particularly tricky during that time of the month:
1. Sneezing
Picture this: a woman in cute shorts sneezing on her heaviest day. It’s a disaster waiting to happen. During a sneeze, the urge to clench your legs together is almost instinctual, as you hope to keep everything in place. One sneeze and you can feel like a volcano about to erupt. It’s a precarious balancing act that often leads to messes that are less than pleasant.
2. Spin Class
If you’re considering joining a spin class, heed this advice: avoid it while Aunt Flo is in town. The combination of exertion, pressure, and the constant movement can be overwhelming. If you’re not accustomed to the bouncing, it’s best to wait until your period has passed before you dive into that intense workout. Your body will thank you later.
3. Coughing
Similar to sneezing, coughing, laughing hard, or even standing up too quickly can lead to anxiety as you navigate your period. These everyday actions quickly become fraught with the fear of leakage, making what should be simple moments feel incredibly stressful.
4. Attending Your Child’s Events
Whether it’s a sports tournament or a dance recital, sitting for long periods in uncomfortable seating while worrying about your menstrual supplies can be quite the ordeal. The anxiety escalates if your period arrives unexpectedly, leaving you scrambling to find a bathroom and manage the situation discreetly.
5. Wearing a Thong
We all know that wearing a thong during your period is usually a bad idea. Yet, there are moments when you might feel pressured to wear one to avoid visible panty lines. Unfortunately, this often leads to discomfort and a longing for something more forgiving, like high-waisted briefs that provide more coverage and support.
It’s 2023, and while we strive to carry on with our lives, the reality is that menstruation can still be messy and inconvenient. We continue to navigate daily tasks—sneezing, laughing, and enduring lengthy meetings—while managing this natural process.
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In summary, while we continue to push through each month, the reality of menstruation often brings its own set of hurdles. From sneezing to wearing the right undergarments, these challenges remind us that even in our empowered moments, we still have to deal with the messiness of being human.