While I strive for cleanliness in some areas, I am far from a neat freak. My kitchen counters often see days without a thorough clean, and I tend to let the vacuuming slide. Socks frequently find their way onto the family room floor, contributing to a home that exists somewhere between “comfortably lived in” and “why can’t I have nice things?” However, one chore I take seriously is making my bed.
Every single day, I engage in the ritual of straightening the sheets, adjusting the comforter, and fluffing the pillows. Yes, even on weekends. Although the sheets might not be freshly laundered, I ensure that the bed is always neatly made.
It seems that in adulthood, people generally fall into two categories: those who make their beds and those who do not. In my household, I belong to the first group while my partner, Mark, is firmly in the second. Left to his devices, the bed would remain a chaotic jumble of blankets each night, as he views the morning task of making the bed as futile, given that it will only be undone later.
For me, making the bed is a small but significant act that helps create an illusion of order amidst life’s chaos. On particularly hectic days, a made bed can be the only semblance of control I possess.
Recently, I conducted an informal poll on social media regarding bed-making habits, and interestingly, regardless of their choices, people were adamant that their approach was the correct one. Those who make their beds typically do so out of habit or a desire for some semblance of order in their lives. One respondent stated, “There’s nothing better than climbing into a bed that has been made after a long, crazy, hectic day.” I couldn’t agree more!
Conversely, some people admitted to leaving their beds unmade out of laziness or simply because they felt it was pointless. One individual humorously remarked, “The sweet freedom of adulthood allows me to never make my bed again.”
Interestingly, a survey from Hunch.com indicated that a majority of people—59%—choose not to make their beds, while only 27% do, and 12% even hire someone to take care of it. Some suggest that leaving beds unmade could be cleaner since it may deter dust mites, but cleaning expert Clara James argues that dust mites are ubiquitous, regardless of bed status. She recommends washing sheets every two weeks, though vacuuming the mattress may be too ambitious for many.
Perhaps the most compelling reason to make one’s bed is that it might contribute to happiness and even financial success. A recent book highlights that millionaires share certain habits, including the daily ritual of bed-making. Additionally, Psychology Today found that those who make their beds often report higher levels of happiness and are more likely to enjoy fulfilling jobs, own homes, exercise regularly, and feel well-rested.
Ultimately, there’s no definitive right or wrong when it comes to this daily task. However, if the prospect of happiness and wealth appeals to you, perhaps you might consider making your bed.
Now, if you’ll excuse me, I have some kitchen counters to neglect and, of course, a bed to tidy up.
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Summary
The article explores the debate between making one’s bed and leaving it unmade, revealing insights from personal experiences and a social media poll. It highlights how bed-making can symbolize order and impact happiness, and even financial success. Ultimately, the choice remains personal, but those who make their beds often find a sense of fulfillment and control.