Back in the ’70s, my parents embraced a lifestyle that leaned heavily into natural health and wellness, shaped significantly by my father’s chiropractic practice. Their approach to holistic living was ahead of its time, and while they didn’t fit the mold of traditional hippies, their choices were certainly inspired by those values. Now, as my son celebrates his second birthday, I find myself navigating the complexities of parenthood—and often falling short of my parents’ lofty ideals.
I can’t help but wonder whether it’s easier to lead an organic lifestyle today, with the rise of health-food stores like Whole Foods, or if it was simpler back in the slower-paced days of the ’70s and ’80s, when fewer distractions existed (yes, I’m looking at you, social media). One thing is clear: my parents were champions of holistic living, while I often feel like I’m taking the easy route. Perhaps it’s natural for us to stray from our parents’ beliefs, and maybe that’s perfectly acceptable.
For instance:
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The Family Garden
My parents cultivated an impressive garden filled with tomatoes, cucumbers, squash, green beans, and more. I recall them tending to an expansive plot—probably an acre—complete with a small tractor for watering, weeding, and harvesting. My mother would spend hours canning the produce, and we even had a dehydrator in the basement to vacuum-seal our bounty. My attempts at gardening? I once tried growing parsley in a pot, only to watch it wither away before giving up entirely. Instead of farming, I rely on my local supermarket for produce, which often lacks organic options and can be too pricey. Sorry, Mom and Dad. -
Vaccination Choices
My parents opted out of vaccinating my brother and me, a choice made long before vaccination became a contentious topic. While I respect their decision, navigating the education system without vaccinations was a challenge. My husband and I debated the issue, ultimately deciding to immunize our son for both medical and social reasons. We initially tried to space out his vaccines but quickly realized it meant more doctor visits and higher co-pays. Now, we follow the standard vaccination schedule set by the American Academy of Pediatrics, just like most families. Sorry, Mom and Dad. -
Sugar Struggles
In my childhood home, processed sugar was practically forbidden. We ate shredded wheat with only a drizzle of honey and enjoyed fruit for dessert. I still remember the rare occasion we toasted with 7UP on New Year’s Eve—it felt like a dream! Fast forward to college, where I indulged in Oreo ice cream for dinner and snacks. To prevent my son from feeling restricted and succumbing to the “forbidden fruit” mentality, I allow him some treats, like Cheerios and cupcakes at parties. Sorry, Mom and Dad. -
Dairy Dilemmas
My parents were staunchly against cow’s milk, believing that humans shouldn’t consume a product meant for calves, which was a bold stance in Dairy State Wisconsin. They used rice milk instead. When I began transitioning my son from breastfeeding, I initially followed suit, but soon became concerned about the sugar content in rice milk. After considering the implications of soy milk and almond milk, we eventually settled on cow’s milk for him, despite my mixed feelings. Sorry, Mom and Dad.
Let me be clear: I’m grateful for the healthy foundation my parents provided. They instilled in me the importance of being mindful about what I consume and what I offer to my child. However, I also recognize that many children grow up without tasting organic foods and turn out just fine—perhaps even without the weight of “organic guilt.” For more insights on parenting and home insemination, check out this post on Cervical Insemination.
In summary, while I may not be living up to my parents’ holistic lifestyle, I’m confident in my choices as a modern parent navigating the complexities of today’s world. For those exploring options in pregnancy and home insemination, this resource from the NICHD is invaluable. And if you’re interested in at-home insemination kits, consider visiting Make a Mom for reliable products.
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