Updated: Dec. 18, 2015
Originally Published: May 9, 2015
I’m well-acquainted with airport travel times—not because I was a globe-trotting child, but because I spent countless hours shuttling friends to and from the airport. My mother was the go-to person in our circle, renowned for her willingness to drive anyone in need.
Let’s be clear: her friends weren’t destitute. They could easily afford a taxi or airport parking fees. But for my mom, it was never about the cost. She firmly believed that no one should have to take a taxi to or from an airport, no questions asked.
Her formative years were shaped by an era when flying was a glamorous affair, marked by tailored suits and stylish outfits, not the sweatpants and graphic tees of today. For her, the idea of sitting idly by while a close friend flew out was unthinkable; even more shocking was the thought of a loved one landing without a familiar face to greet them. The very idea was unthinkable!
As a New Yorker who’s never owned a car, I don’t have the same flexibility to spend hours on the road with a friend. Yet, I’ve absorbed the life lessons from those airport runs. I’m the one who lingers after a gathering to help with the cleanup. I arrive at brunch bearing a bounty of fresh fruits, ready to slice and serve—even if you lack the right kitchen tools (seriously, get a decent vegetable peeler already!). I’ll write glowing recommendations for your child’s dream school or bring clean underwear to your hospital room. Yes, I’ve already been asked to do that twice this year alone. There should really be an app for hospital underwear delivery; imagine the profits Victoria’s Secret or Hanes could see from such a venture!
The crux of my message is simple: It’s not just about driving someone to the airport. Whenever we have the chance to assist others—within reason—we should seize it. It doesn’t just help them; it enriches our own lives. My mother grasped this truth deeply: by picking someone up from the airport, you’re not only offering support, but you’re also nurturing your own belief in love, friendship, and the idea that someday, when you return from a long journey, someone will be there to welcome you with open arms.
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In summary, the lessons we learn from our parents can shape our approach to life’s little tasks, and helping others is a rewarding journey that ultimately benefits us all.
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