“Mom, why can’t everyone just be kind?”
This heartfelt inquiry arose during an ordinary visit to the dentist for my son, Jake’s semi-annual teeth cleaning. While our family is fortunate to have a supportive circle, we often encounter individuals whose words and actions can be hurtful. In public settings, the unpredictability of human interaction can be daunting.
The dental practice we frequent is staffed by remarkable professionals who consistently go the extra mile, especially when it comes to accommodating individuals on the autism spectrum. However, I was still unprepared for the warmth we experienced during our recent visit.
Shortly after our arrival, an endearing older woman introduced herself and sat down across from me. With a radiant smile, she asked if she could engage Jake in conversation. Surprised, I nodded, and what followed was truly magical. She skillfully drew him out of his shell, asking about his favorite games, recent Lego creations, preferred foods, and his thoughts on Marvel superheroes. I instinctively moved to calm him down, but she gently stopped me, assuring me that his joy was wonderful to see.
When it was time for his cleaning, she leaned in and whispered, “My grandson has autism too. Aren’t they the sweetest kids?” With that, she gave me a reassuring pat on the shoulder and walked with Jake towards the treatment area.
On the way home, Jake asked, “Mom, why can’t everyone be kind?” The impact of that stranger’s kindness resonated with him deeply, prompting him to urge me to encourage others to show compassion, as everyone deserves to feel valued.
Imagine if we all made a conscious effort to extend kindness and grace to those around us. What if we leveraged our personal experiences to uplift others? What if we became the source of hope for those facing challenges?
We could offer a comforting word to someone struggling or smile at passersby instead of rushing through our day. Imagine helping a mother managing a child’s meltdown or assisting an individual with crutches carrying heavy bags. These small gestures could transform someone’s day.
We have all felt the sting of unkindness—delivered either intentionally or out of ignorance. Conversely, we know the healing power of kindness, which can mend wounds that we may not even recognize.
Many of us, particularly those who face their own difficulties or care for loved ones with challenges, may feel depleted. However, reflecting on moments when someone showed us kindness can help us tap into a reservoir of strength we didn’t know existed.
Jake encourages us to accept a kindness challenge, reminding us that every individual matters. I am embracing this challenge, and I invite you to join in.
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In summary, let’s strive to be intentional about kindness, recognizing its profound impact on both ourselves and others. Together, we can make a difference, one small act at a time.