When my partner and I discovered we were expecting our third child, we were taken completely off guard. Just weeks prior, we had given away the last of our baby supplies, convinced that our family of four was complete. But surprise!
Our older children were thrilled about the impending arrival, and soon, we began to embrace the news. However, the reality of replacing all the baby gear we had just let go triggered a bit of anxiety.
With the excitement of a new baby comes the usual chatter about names, swaddling, and adorable outfits—everything that brings joy to expectant parents. Naturally, the topic of a baby shower came up, but we found ourselves hesitating.
Initially, we considered a simple gathering where guests could bring hand-me-downs. The thought of receiving cherished baby items from friends was heartwarming. However, as we discussed registries, I realized that my vision of a streamlined experience was unlikely to materialize.
So, we decided to forgo the traditional baby shower in favor of a “baby sprinkle”—an informal gathering to welcome our new addition. Interestingly, this concept is quite common in Europe, where baby showers are less traditional. In France, for instance, families host gatherings after the baby is born, with guests bringing gifts for both the mother and child.
This isn’t about materialism; I want to avoid accumulating unnecessary baby items that often come from good intentions or clearance sales. My partner and I have been gradually acquiring essentials like a crib, car seat, and baby carrier, ensuring we stick to what we genuinely need.
As I enter the third trimester, I’ve realized what I truly desire is the warmth and support of family and friends to celebrate this new life. The French approach resonates with me—it’s about the joy of introducing the baby to loved ones, sharing those emotional moments, and receiving hugs and laughter instead of just gifts.
While I have fond memories of my previous baby showers, this time, I’m envisioning something that emphasizes community and love rather than material goods. Instead of focusing on onesies, I want to create an atmosphere filled with stories and connection. (And yes, casseroles wouldn’t hurt either.)
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In summary, as I prepare for this third child, I am choosing to celebrate the arrival of our new family member through a gathering focused on love and connection rather than material gifts.