As a child, I was often taken aback by the contrast between my mother’s impeccable style and the surprising secret she harbored: her underwear was a decade old, and it showed. How could someone so elegant and vibrant be wearing such worn-out undergarments? Even at just nine, I recognized that she could use a refresh.
Now that I’m a mom myself, I completely understand. While my drawer houses a collection of newer, stylish lingerie that declares, “I’m aging, but not yet in grannypants territory,” I also have that other section: the clean yet well-loved “everyday” underwear that should have been tossed ages ago.
Recently, while reorganizing my bureau, I realized why my mother held onto those questionable pieces for so long and why they could be deemed beautiful. Here’s what the concept of “worn-out” underwear now signifies to me, thanks to her:
1. Worn-out underwear is a mom’s way of prioritizing her children.
My mom always ensured that my brother and I had clothes that wouldn’t embarrass us (until those cringe-worthy Facebook memories surfaced), shoes that fit, and Halloween costumes she crafted herself. It’s no surprise that lingerie shopping often fell to the bottom of her list. She taught us that nurturing and being present for our kids is a form of love that transcends material concerns, even if it means sporting less-than-perfect underwear.
2. If you’re donning worn-out underwear, you’re likely a force to be reckoned with.
My mother was an exceptional athlete, dominating the tennis court with skill and grace. I remember sitting in the bleachers, inspired by her strength and speed. As I grew, she encouraged me to embrace my own sturdy frame, which made me a decent volleyball and basketball player. She imparted the lesson that true beauty doesn’t necessitate sexy lingerie; it can also manifest in the form of a powerful woman rocking old sports briefs while conquering the field.
3. Worn-out underwear signifies a lighthearted approach to life.
There’s something wonderfully relatable about a well-dressed woman hiding questionable underwear beneath. I admire those who can laugh at the absurdities of life and find joy even in their imperfections. My childhood home was filled with laughter and playful teasing, a dynamic that remains alive today, even as life becomes more complex. It’s essential to embrace our flaws, our blunders, and yes, even that tattered underwear collection.
So, here’s to you, Mom, for teaching me that even the most unappealing undergarments can carry their own charm and story. And just to be clear, if my husband feels inclined to surprise me with new lingerie for Mother’s Day, I won’t be opposed!
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In summary, what we wear beneath our clothes may not define us, but it can tell a story of love, humor, and strength that is worth sharing.
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