As a physician and a parent of a transgender child, I understand the profound fears and challenges that come with advocating for our kids. It’s not just about being strong; it’s about navigating a world that often seems hostile. While I appreciate the support from family and friends, I often feel isolated, like I’m standing on a beach watching a tsunami approach, knowing that I must protect my child from the inevitable waves of discrimination.
I worry deeply for my child’s well-being and future. Unlike many of you, my child faces hurdles that you may never have to confront. Your child isn’t subjected to unjust bathroom bans at school or labeled with hurtful terms that can be deeply damaging. When policies change, it won’t be your child who is denied essential healthcare services or faces the emotional turmoil of gender dysphoria alone. When the protections under Title IX were stripped away, it wasn’t your child who risked being excluded from spaces where they feel safe.
I hear you telling me to be brave and to raise my voice, but I often feel paralyzed by fear. I fear for my child’s safety and future. I fear the possibility of being accused of somehow harming my child by allowing them to express their true identity. This is not just a theoretical concern; it could very well become a reality.
What I Need from You
So here’s what I need from you. I need you to be proactive advocates for my child and all trans youth. Use your voices to call upon your representatives and demand that every trans individual is treated with the dignity and respect they deserve. I urge you to engage directly with local officials and educational institutions to push for inclusive policies that allow all students to use the restrooms that match their gender identity—do it now, before it’s too late.
I also ask that you speak out in your communities. Don’t just share information on social media; have meaningful conversations with those around you. Sit down with friends or family and discuss the realities of trans issues. Education can break down the walls of ignorance that often stem from fear.
Additionally, I encourage you to participate in activism—attend rallies, share your experiences, and let others know why supporting trans rights is crucial. Your involvement can help protect my child and countless others who face similar challenges.
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In Summary
As a parent of a trans child, I need you to stand beside me as a supportive ally. Your voice matters, and together we can advocate for the change that is so desperately needed. It’s time to act—not just for my child, but for the betterment of all trans youth.