I recently bumped into an old acquaintance, Amanda, whom I hadn’t seen since she welcomed her first child about a year ago. After exchanging pleasantries like, “How’s your little one? Are you getting any sleep?” and the inevitable “Are you planning to have more?” she excitedly pulled out her phone. As she flipped through countless images of her baby, her joy was palpable. Each picture told a story, illustrating her child’s first year in an engaging and heartfelt way.
Surprisingly, instead of feeling overwhelmed or impatient by her personal slideshow, I found myself struck by a wave of envy. It wasn’t about my own maternal instincts yearning for another child nor the ticking of biological clocks; rather, it was about the treasure trove of memories she had amassed.
Last week, I found myself reminiscing about my own firstborn, who is now off at college. I opened his baby book, and within minutes, I was reminded of just how few photos I had captured during that precious time—about 50 pictures over twelve months. Back then, I used a traditional Kodak camera that limited me to only 36 frames per roll. Each shot had to count, and my first attempt at feeding him solids resulted in just three photos. Meanwhile, Amanda had captured over 150 shots of her daughter enjoying rice cereal, showcasing a variety of expressions that were nothing short of delightful.
And when it came to videos, the contrast was stark. Amanda had short clips of her little one practically every day, while my collection included just a few special occasions, like Christmas and Easter. The cumbersome process of setting up my old camcorder—making sure it was charged and had enough tape—felt like an insurmountable task in the busy chaos of new parenthood. Today, with technology, capturing those fleeting moments takes just a click, allowing parents to become both moms and documentary filmmakers of their children’s early lives.
As a doctor, I’ve seen the importance of documenting life’s milestones, and I’ve learned to share this wisdom with new mothers. Rather than saying, “Enjoy every moment, it goes by so fast,” which can feel disingenuous, I now emphasize, “Capture as many pictures and videos as you can! Live in the moment, but don’t hesitate to record it; memories fade, but photos last forever.” Thanks to cloud storage, there’s no need to worry about losing these memories to a house fire or any other disaster.
So, go ahead and fill your cloud with those precious moments. Your children will one day be grateful for the visual history you’ve created. For more insights on this journey, check out this excellent resource on pregnancy and home insemination at the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development.
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In summary, capturing your child’s early years through photos and videos is invaluable. It allows you to relive those moments and ensures that your children will appreciate these memories in the future.