As a physician, I’ve witnessed numerous facets of motherhood, and despite my initial resistance, I’ve come to fully embrace the mom stereotype. I fought against it, desperately trying to carve out my own identity, but eventually, I surrendered to the reality of being a typical mom.
Every now and then, I might splurge on those trendy jeans or the latest blouses that flood social media. I’ll wear them for a short time before they find themselves buried at the back of my closet, overshadowed by my comfortable tunics and leggings. While I strive to stay relevant, at the end of the day, I prioritize comfort over style. After all, I’m a weary mom.
I sometimes venture to the artisanal coffee shops in my area, eager to experience their unique atmospheres and elaborate drink offerings. I want to appreciate their creativity, but truth be told, I often find solace in the familiarity of a grande vanilla latte from a well-known chain. It’s predictable, comforting, and comes without any pretense—perfect for a chilly day.
Standing out can be exhausting, and honestly, I just don’t have the mental bandwidth to challenge the norms of motherhood. Yes, we drive a minivan; I wear UGG boots without irony; and I genuinely believe that fall is the best season—fight me on that if you dare! I embrace these traits because they reflect who I am.
At 33, I’ve realized that I don’t need to be different to be fulfilled. The stereotypes surrounding moms resonate because they capture shared experiences and feelings. Yes, we can go days without showering because we’re just too exhausted. And it’s no surprise that leggings are a staple in our wardrobes, often stained with remnants from our kids. Do we unwind with a glass of wine after long days of negotiating homework? Absolutely.
I’ve come to accept that it’s perfectly fine to fit the mold. It’s acceptable to show up at school pickup with a messy bun, clad in yoga pants, and maybe even a few snacks scattered in the back seat. If dry shampoo is your go-to beauty hack or if mac and cheese has become a dinner staple, that’s okay! And let’s not forget the assorted fruit snack wrappers lurking in our bags.
Even if you feel like you’re living up to a stereotype, remember that you are a strong, intelligent, and beautiful woman raising compassionate children. That’s a mom stereotype worth celebrating.
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In summary, embracing the mom stereotype is about acknowledging the shared experiences that define motherhood. It’s about finding comfort in familiarity and recognizing that it’s okay to fit into the mold. Celebrate your journey, and remember that you’re doing an incredible job!