At first glance, it might seem peculiar that we maintain our friendship, especially considering our differing beliefs, backgrounds, and personalities. Our discussions often take place through texts, emails, and social media, with an occasional phone call thrown in for good measure. Our family structures might vary, and our parenting styles could be worlds apart. We may even reside in different cities, states, or countries.
However, these differences don’t define our bond. What truly matters in friendship is often unspoken, and there are several things that I simply IDGAF about.
Dietary Choices
For example, I don’t care what type of diet you choose for your family. Whether you prefer an all-organic menu or indulge in fast food, it’s your choice. If your family dinners involve a strict meal plan or you’re serving up a buffet for picky eaters, that’s entirely up to you. Just don’t give me the side-eye for having a pantry stocked with snacks you might criticize.
Professional Life
Your professional life doesn’t concern me either. Whether you’re a working mom, a stay-at-home parent, or something entirely different, I’m more focused on the quality of our friendship. It doesn’t matter if your attire is business casual or yoga pants; what counts is our ability to vent about how demanding our lives can be, whether it’s related to work or parenting.
Home Environment
I’m not bothered by the state of your home or vehicle. Whether your place is spotless or a little chaotic, I value the time we spend together over the aesthetics of your living space. A true friend makes it easy to relax without worrying about the state of one’s shoes upon entering.
Parenting Styles
I also don’t care how you choose to parent, or even if you are a parent. Whether you co-sleep, use cloth diapers, or have your own unique approach, what matters is your kindness toward my children and respect for my choices. I can’t stand the judgmental types who ride their high horses, so mutual respect is essential. It’s a bonus if our kids get along; it makes our conversations about them much more enjoyable.
Beliefs and Interests
Your political, religious, or cultural beliefs don’t faze me either. Whether you binge-watch reality TV or follow serious news, it’s the moments we share that matter. As long as we can indulge in doughy treats and enjoy a movie night in pajamas, that’s what counts. I appreciate when our discussions are rooted in knowledge and good intentions, regardless of differing opinions.
True Connection
Ultimately, I value kind-hearted individuals. As I grow older, I find that I have fewer cares to give, so I reserve them for genuine connections. I care whether you reciprocate my efforts, whether I can rely on you during tough times, and if we can share laughter and tears.
Do we trust each other with our secrets? Can we comfortably express our feelings? Friendship isn’t about perfection; it’s about being real and vulnerable with one another. It’s about letting each other see behind the curtain without fear. After all, what’s friendship without a few good stories and inside jokes?
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In summary, true friendship transcends differences in lifestyle, parenting choices, and beliefs. What matters most is mutual respect, kindness, and the ability to support each other through life’s ups and downs.