Parenting can be an overwhelming journey, especially when you’re trying to find your footing. I remember when I first became a parent over a decade ago; I felt like a deer caught in headlights. Watching other parents manage meltdowns or rough play in public spaces became my unofficial research. I would hang around moms at grocery stores, listening intently as they navigated the challenges of discipline. I was determined to raise kids who wouldn’t grow up with a sense of entitlement, and over the years, I’ve learned a lot about effective discipline.
From my observations, it became clear that children who exhibited the worst behavior often had parents who didn’t intervene. In our home, we prioritize rules and consequences. My kids hear “no” more often than “yes,” and I don’t hesitate to remove them from a situation if they misbehave. They have chores to do without any financial reward, they handle their own homework, and I haven’t emptied the dishwasher since they took on that responsibility two years ago. My husband and I have taught them the importance of acknowledging their mistakes and offering sincere apologies when necessary.
So here’s the bottom line: I take discipline seriously. If your child is putting my child’s safety at risk or behaving like a bully, you can count on me to speak up. With over a decade of parenting experience, I’m no longer shy about addressing bad behavior when I see it. I’ve become comfortable asserting myself, and I have no qualms about being perceived as “that mom.” If your child acts out in my home, they will face the same consequences as mine.
If your child pushes my kid on the playground, I will intervene. If we’re at a school event and your child is disrespectful, I will address it. If your child is monopolizing the swing when my child is waiting, you can bet I’ll step in. I’ve invested years teaching my kids about proper behavior, and I refuse to let them be overshadowed by others who choose not to follow the rules. When I approach a child, I do so politely, and I hope other parents would do the same with my kids.
Often, I’ll first reach out to the child’s parent to find a constructive solution. Engaging with other parents can lead to a better understanding of what’s happening on the playground. Addressing behavior can also create valuable lessons for my kids on how to respectfully interact with children who may need extra support.
Let’s be clear: my kids are not perfect. If you see them misbehaving, feel free to step in if I’m not around. They respect adults who hold them accountable, and I appreciate friends who help me keep them in check.
Yes, I’ll be that parent who tells little Johnny it’s my son’s turn on the slide. I’ll be the one who reminds Timmy that some words shouldn’t be used around adults. I want my children to witness me assert my beliefs and stand up for them. By doing so, I teach them how to advocate for themselves and confirm that adults are in charge, even when their own parents aren’t present. When kids see adults stand up for them, they learn that they have allies looking out for their well-being.
Parenting is a tough job, and we often share advice on things like breastfeeding or sleep training. So why not support each other in the discipline department as well? After all, if someone else is taking the time to correct my child for not sharing or needing a timeout, it gives me a moment to breathe and figure out the complexities of parenting.
In summary, I firmly believe it’s essential to engage in discipline and offer support to other parents when necessary. We can all help shape the behavior of children, ensuring a kinder, more respectful environment for everyone.
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