Hello, I’m Dr. Emily, and I genuinely enjoyed my time being pregnant. Covers head from potential backlash Confessing my love for pregnancy often feels like admitting I’m a fan of a polarizing artist. While I get that pregnancy can be a challenging experience for many women, I found joy in it. As I’ve encountered more moms who struggled during their pregnancies, I sometimes feel like the odd one out. Regardless of your feelings about this transformative time—whether you embrace it, dread it, or feel indifferent—here are seven insights I wish I had known while carrying my little ones.
1. Indulge in Your Cravings
Yes, you heard me correctly: indulge! During my first pregnancy, I couldn’t get enough of savory delights like hearty sandwiches and rich Italian dishes. Initially, I felt guilty about these cravings and tried to stick to healthier options. But guess what? After giving birth, I still looked like I had just had a baby. Embrace those cravings; you’re nurturing a little person inside you.
2. Your Superhero Cape is in the Wash
Many expectant mothers continue their daily routines as if nothing has changed. However, just because you can do it all doesn’t mean you should. It’s perfectly okay to pass on commitments that you don’t want to take on. Just say, “My superhero cape is at the dry cleaners,” and let it go.
3. Secondhand Goods Are Gold
In my eagerness to prepare for my first child, I purchased everything new. However, I quickly realized that new items often succumb to wear and tear from little hands. Save your budget and your sanity—secondhand items can often be just as good, except for mattresses, which should always be new to avoid pests.
4. Don’t Hesitate to Ask for Help
Feeling awkward about asking for assistance is common during pregnancy. I thought I had to manage everything—cleaning, shopping, and organizing—all on my own. I learned too late that it truly takes a village, a sentiment that’s older than any parenting book.
5. Sexual Intimacy is Key
Pregnancy can change how you view your body, but my partner’s kind words made a world of difference. When he told me I looked beautiful, it reignited a spark in my self-image. When you feel attractive, it can enhance your relationship. So, whether you’re all in or avoiding it altogether, remember that this phase can be fulfilling.
6. Invest in Maternity Fashion
You’ll wear those maternity clothes for nine months—make them count! Embrace the opportunity to flaunt styles you might not wear after pregnancy. The resale value can also be surprisingly good, so treat yourself without guilt.
7. Embrace the Nesting Instinct
Nesting was my favorite part of pregnancy. I found myself cleaning and organizing like never before, despite my usual disdain for household chores. Once the baby arrives, those moments of cleanliness will be fewer, so revel in that energy while it lasts.
In summary, while you may feel uncomfortable and experience physical changes during pregnancy, remember that this is a unique time in your life. It’s a preparatory phase before you dive into the whirlwind of caring for a newborn. So, cherish those months while you can still focus on yourself. For more insightful tips and information about pregnancy and home insemination, visit Kindbody or check out this helpful resource. And if you’re exploring options for your journey, Make A Mom has excellent products to assist you.