Dear Working Mom,
You are doing an incredible job, and I want you to hear that loud and clear. Juggling your career and family life is no small feat. The struggle is real, and I completely understand because I’m right there with you.
That nagging “Mom Guilt” you experience is something I also feel. Do my children know how much I love them? Am I present enough? Am I giving them the quality time they deserve? These thoughts swirl around in your head, and trust me, you’re not alone.
You’re part of a community of resilient, hardworking women striving to provide for their families while still carving out moments of joy for themselves. It often feels like a lose-lose situation—when you excel at work, you worry you’re failing at home. You crave more time with your kids while also wishing for those quiet moments after bedtime to tackle chores and prepare for the next day. The truth is, you’re constantly on the go from dawn until you finally collapse into bed at night, hoping for just a few more hours in the day.
I understand that for many of you, working is not a choice but a necessity. This reality can weigh heavily on your heart. You dream of finding a way to pay the bills while cherishing time with your children. You are not alone in this struggle; you are surrounded by other moms navigating similar paths.
At morning drop-offs, you’re not alone praying for smooth traffic, or when you use precious vacation days to care for sick little ones. You are not alone when you feel a pang of guilt sending them to school unwell because you’ve exhausted your time-off. You’re not alone in choosing store-bought treats for class parties instead of homemade ones because time is simply not on your side—this is a victory in its own right because your kids are just grateful you remembered.
When tears well up at drop-off because your little one clings to you, and you simultaneously feel a sense of relief heading to work, you’re not alone. And when you question if your child prefers the nanny over you, rest assured, they don’t. You’re not alone in juggling breastfeeding, pumping, and downing your third cup of coffee to power through another day of sleepless nights.
You’re not alone when you scroll through photos from the weekend, wishing you could relive those moments, or when you cry at night because you missed a milestone. It’s okay to question whether you’re doing enough because you are enough, Working Mom.
You’re not alone while managing household chores alongside your professional responsibilities and quality family time. A mother’s work is never done, but your efforts are building a foundation for your children. You’re teaching them love, resilience, and the value of hard work.
You’re shaping their world by showing them that it’s possible to balance career and family, even if it feels overwhelming. Yes, sacrifices must be made, but your kids feel your love and learn from your example every day. They’ll grow to understand that everything you do is for them.
While it’s said that these challenging days will pass, they are also the most precious moments. Let’s embrace them together.
We are wonderful mothers, Working Mom. We’re doing our very best. We’ve got this.
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Summary:
Working moms, you are not alone in your journey. Each day brings challenges, but your love and dedication are making a significant impact on your children’s lives. Embrace the hard days and know that you are doing your best.