Recently, my partner and I found ourselves contemplating the merits of starting a college fund for our children. Although neither of them is of school age yet, it seems prudent to begin saving early. After all, in a decade and a half, we won’t have an extra $60,000 readily available for our daughter’s tuition, nor another $60,000 the following year for our son. So, it’s time to think about saving—right?
However, I don’t believe my children need to attend college. In fact, I think no child is required to go, and the pressure placed on students and parents to pursue higher education is excessive. College is not the ultimate solution to career success. Many of my peers can vouch for the reality that holding a four-year degree doesn’t guarantee employment. The job market has changed, and it may never have been the best path to success. I expect my children to be self-sufficient when they leave home, but college isn’t the only route to achieving that. It’s a choice, not a necessity.
Career Paths That Require College
Certainly, there are careers that require a college degree. Professions like law, medicine, and psychology necessitate specific educational qualifications. In these cases, a college education is essential.
Alternative Career Paths
But what about those who aspire to be artists, writers, or sales professionals? These careers can bring joy and fulfillment to many, and individuals in these fields often find great pride in their work. You don’t need a degree to pursue your passion and find satisfaction in what you do.
Additionally, consider skilled trades like plumbing, electrical work, or waste management. While some of these professions may require training, it’s not necessary to accrue $40,000 (or more) in student debt to learn them. Many people opt for trade schools or begin at entry-level positions, acquiring skills on the job and advancing their careers without the burden of crippling debt. In fact, many skilled trades can offer higher salaries than some college-required professions.
The Value of College Experiences
It’s often said that attending college provides valuable “experiences,” but is the cost of attending worth going into significant debt? One can easily share an apartment with friends after high school and enjoy similar experiences without the financial strain.
Reflecting on my own college years, I made lifelong friendships and met my partner, discovering a lot about myself along the way. But was it worth the debt I currently face? I’m not entirely sure. If I could rewind time, I might have chosen a different educational path that was less financially burdensome. While I cannot change my past, I can guide my children as they navigate their own career choices.
Supporting My Children’s Choices
Ultimately, I will support my children in whatever path they choose—whether that’s attending college, enrolling in a trade school, or even pursuing unique opportunities like an art commune. My main goal is their happiness, and college does not guarantee that. For more insights into alternative parenting and family planning, check out this post on home insemination here. If you’re exploring home insemination options, you might find Cryobaby’s home insemination kits helpful. For anyone considering intrauterine insemination, Cleveland Clinic is an excellent resource.
Summary
The article discusses the notion that college is not a necessity for all children, emphasizing alternative career paths and the financial burden of higher education. The author reflects on their own college experience while stressing the importance of supporting children in choosing their own paths.