In the realm of motherhood, there are countless narratives—some that lean towards anti-feminist views and others that embrace a more feminist standpoint. However, as a mother myself, I want to share my viewpoint as a proud Supermom!
Every day, I strive to be a nurturing mom who actively participates in my children’s lives, and I believe that’s completely acceptable. Just because I have a job doesn’t mean I am absent from their experiences. We Supermoms can juggle it all. We brew coffee, prepare breakfast for the kids, get everyone dressed, sneak in a sip of lukewarm coffee, shower, throw on a shirt, change a diaper, try to enjoy a sip of cold coffee, and even reheat it. We put on makeup, chase toddlers around the house, gulp down cold coffee, brush our teeth, toss in a load of laundry, get toothpaste on our shirt, change said shirt, clean up breakfast, pack lunches, and even manage to steal a spoonful of Nutella. All while coordinating a million other tasks, such as scheduling appointments and remembering important school events—like picture day! Meanwhile, our husbands often enjoy that hot cup of coffee we prepared, relaxing in the bathroom with the morning news.
I’m fortunate to have a supportive partner, Mark, who helps out tremendously. He has always respected my choices, just as I have honored his. However, I realized how much he contributes when his recent injury kept him from doing much around the house. With his ruptured Achilles tendon, I found myself managing all the cooking, cleaning, and childcare duties after a demanding workday and a lengthy commute. The difference was exhausting.
Many women, especially single mothers, embody the role of Supermom daily. Take my friend Sarah, who has been the sole head of her household for several years while her spouse serves in the military. She tackles everything from changing lightbulbs to assembling toys on Christmas Eve—all by herself. And then there’s my colleague, who faced motherhood at a young age, raising her children alone while earning both a bachelor’s and a master’s degree online. These women exemplify what it means to be a Supermom.
It’s perfectly alright to enjoy cooking and caring for your family. I often serve dinner with pride, and that’s more than okay. I have numerous role models—my mother, my mother-in-law, and my friends—who all exemplify the Supermom spirit, whether they work outside the home or are stay-at-home moms. They do their best every day, regardless of the limitations placed upon them.
That’s a lot of pressure, and I often wonder why some feminists choose to take it all on. But for us Supermoms, we want it all. I enjoy my job, love spending time with my kids, relish cooking for my family, and cherish our dance parties in the living room. Life is about balance and choice.
This morning, my 4-year-old asked about leadership roles, and I told him that leadership isn’t defined by one person. My 6-year-old chimed in, “Just like you and Dad!” Exactly. I want my boys to understand that men and women are equals. They should see their father not just as a provider but as a partner who shares household responsibilities. We’ve come a long way from previous generations, and I’m grateful for the choices available to me today. My life, and my children’s lives, are richer for it.
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In summary, being a Supermom means embracing all aspects of motherhood while managing the challenges that come our way. We are capable of achieving greatness in both our personal and professional lives, and that is something to celebrate!