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When You Feel Like You Didn’t Achieve Anything Today
by Dr. Emily Carter
Updated: April 18, 2016
Originally Published: April 18, 2016
The day has come to a close. Your kitchen sink is overflowing with dirty dishes, and the laundry is piled high in baskets, some clean and some not so much. You finally sit down with a glass of wine and ponder over what you really accomplished throughout the day. Let’s take a moment to recognize your efforts, fellow parent. You actually did a lot! Here are a few things you should feel proud of:
- You reheated your coffee numerous times, maybe even discovering yesterday’s leftover cup lurking in the microwave. If you managed to toss that mug into the dishwasher, pat yourself on the back—two accomplishments in one!
- You cleaned up after your little ones, including the inevitable spills. It’s a universal truth that kids and water just don’t mix well, and you navigated those puddles like a pro!
- You maintained your composure while letting your kids pick out their outfits. How can it possibly take so long for them to get a shirt on?
- You distributed snacks, which involved some serious chopping and unwrapping. Every little bit counts!
- You changed out of your pajamas—even if it was due to a minor disaster like baby spit-up or toddler mishaps.
- You exited yet another Facebook group, perhaps even one focused on beauty products. Bonus points for staying true to your priorities!
- You got in some exercise. Whether it was picking up, holding, or rocking your child after a tumble, it all counts as a workout!
- You enjoyed a nutritious meal. Chocolate has antioxidants, and so does wine—consider it a balanced diet!
- You found that elusive toy your child needed for their nap, identifying their must-have item of the day in the process.
- You faced your fears and dealt with a spider. Not everyone can say they’ve conquered their eight-legged foes.
- You uncovered the mystery of that strange odor in the living room: a sippy cup hidden under the couch. It’s best to dispose of that one!
- You laughed at your child’s joke, even when it wasn’t funny the first or the 712th time. Your patience is commendable.
- You tackled that pesky chin hair that had been bugging you. Self-care matters!
- You managed to get your kid to eat broccoli. Sure, it took forever, but every little victory counts.
- You attentively listened to your child recount the entire plot of an episode of “Jake and the Never Land Pirates,” only losing track of the story a few times.
- You expertly refereed multiple sibling squabbles throughout the day. You deserve a medal for keeping the peace!
- You saved your child from potential danger—seriously, how do they manage to climb onto bookshelves?
- You arranged a playdate for your children, fostering their social skills and friendships.
- You put your kids to bed after reading three stories, singing a few songs, and perhaps issuing some gentle bribes because, let’s face it, you’re exhausted.
See? You accomplished a ton today! Forget about the dishes for now and give yourself a break—you’ve earned it. For more insights into parenting and home insemination, check out our other posts, like this one. If you’re interested in further information on self insemination, this guide is a great resource. And for a comprehensive overview of artificial insemination, check this out.
Summary:
Parenting is a demanding job, and even on days when it feels like you haven’t accomplished much, there are countless little victories worth celebrating. From managing snacks and laundry to dealing with spills and bedtime stories, every effort counts. Remember to recognize your achievements and take a moment for yourself—you deserve it!