“Mommy, do you want to be thin?” My eight-year-old daughter, Lily, posed this question unexpectedly, leaving me momentarily speechless. I’ve never expressed a desire to be “thin,” although she’s witnessed my commitment to fitness and nutrition, not to mention that her father also promotes wellness.
As I met her earnest gaze, I knew I needed to respond thoughtfully. I’m raising three daughters, and I want to ensure they grow up with a healthy body image and avoid the pitfalls of comparison or feeling inadequate. My aim is for them to appreciate their health and respect their bodies, and to cultivate a sense of self-worth that isn’t tied to appearance.
Prioritizing Health Over Appearance
I want my girls to prioritize their health and strive to be the best versions of themselves—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. They may not recall how many pushups I could do or my time in a 5K, nor will they remember my clothing size. Yet, they will remember that their mother was resilient, fierce, and believed in herself even when the odds were against her.
Throughout the challenging moments, when it would have been easy to give up, I want them to remember that I persevered. I want them to think, “Because of my mom, I never gave up.”
A Moment of Connection
So, without a moment’s hesitation, I bent down to look into Lily’s eyes and replied confidently, “No, sweetheart. Mommy wants to be strong!” She hugged me tightly and whispered, “Then I want to be strong too,” a moment that perfectly encapsulated our shared values.
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Conclusion
In summary, it’s vital to instill a sense of strength and health in our children rather than a fixation on being thin. By prioritizing resilience and self-belief, we can empower them to embrace their individuality and develop a positive relationship with their bodies.