As a physician, I understand the complexities of motherhood. You’ve likely put in the time—applying makeup, showering, and squeezing into a form-fitting outfit. Whether it’s a wedding or a long-awaited date night, you want to capture the moment with a selfie.
But let’s be honest: It’s not the carefree 25-year-old version of yourself flaunting new jewelry or a fresh haircut. Instead, it’s the mom who’s just scored a night off. You might be thinking, “Look at me! I’ve conquered the chaos of motherhood today.” But let’s explore what the unfiltered reality of motherhood truly looks like.
Morning Mayhem, 5 a.m.
You might start your day with a hashtag like #notquiteasleep. Your little ones might prefer to feed you their breakfast instead of eating, and yes, I mean beasts—my kids have earned that title.
Work and Errands Galore
When you have to head to work or run errands, prepare to pull up those control tops. Remember, personal space is a luxury you’ve long sacrificed. Accepting that can make your day a lot easier.
Sleepless Nights
You’re the only one awake at 2 a.m., wondering what tomorrow will bring. Victory selfies of nap battles after a long day become part of your routine. You might even find yourself at a pediatrician’s office, contemplating how long the wait will be.
The Fashion Dilemma
Getting dressed for an evening out post-baby leads to frantic messages to friends: “Does this outfit work?” You might find yourself wearing mismatched clothing, all while someone is inevitably crying in the background. You may even realize you’re wearing a coat indoors to avoid waking a restless toddler.
Moments of Joy
Then there are those rare moments—like enjoying a coffee while reading a book in the car, free from interruptions, even if just for a blissful 40 minutes.
For every perfectly filtered photo you see online, remember that behind it is a mom who has likely faced her share of chaos, just like you. Whether it’s boogers on your jacket or a surprise mess, know you’re not alone in this journey. If you want to read more about the challenges and victories of motherhood, check out our other blog posts, such as this one on navigating the complexities of parenting.
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In summary, the world of motherhood is filled with both the beautiful and the messy. Embrace the chaos and celebrate the victories, no matter how small they may seem.