I have no regrets about my career as a working mom. While some may feel remorseful about balancing work and family, I embrace it wholeheartedly. Each morning when I leave for the office, I’m not sad to see you wave goodbye, knowing you’re excited for the day ahead with your friends and family. I genuinely want you to enjoy those moments, even if I can’t witness them myself.
I cherish how close you are to your grandparents—your Nana, your Gigi, and your Pops—who step in to care for you while I’m at work. Many children don’t enjoy such a strong bond with their grandparents, and I think it’s a beautiful gift you both have. Because I’m a working mom, you also get the chance to spend quality time with your capable father, who is just as involved in your lives.
I appreciate that you’ve formed connections with your caregivers. The more people who care for you, the richer your experiences become. You get to witness both me and your dad sharing household responsibilities, which I believe teaches you that teamwork is essential in any relationship.
Although I may not have as much time with you, I firmly believe the quality of our time together outweighs the quantity. Research suggests that, as a result of my working, you, my daughter, are likely to pursue higher education and earn a better income. Meanwhile, you, my son, are more likely to be hands-on with your own children in the future. These are positive outcomes I’m proud to contribute to.
You’ll also benefit from attending a great school and having a backyard to play in. Perhaps most importantly, I’m glad I have passions outside of motherhood. A fulfilled mom is a better mom, and I want you to see that it’s important to find joy in life.
That said, I do have my worries. I sometimes fear you might envy friends whose moms are home full-time. I dread the moments when I’ll miss your soccer games or band performances, and I worry that someday, you might connect any struggles you face back to me working late to meet deadlines. I know that many of my friends are stay-at-home moms, which might make you feel alone in having a working mom, despite the fact that almost 70% of mothers with kids under 18 are part of the workforce.
Yet, despite my worries, I am filled with gratitude. I hope you appreciate that you’re growing up with parents who challenge traditional gender roles, giving you a broader perspective on life. We’re lucky to have family nearby for support, which many parents don’t have. Most importantly, when I tuck you in after a long day, your big hugs and “I love you, Mommy” reassure me that my working doesn’t lessen our bond.
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In Conclusion
Being a working mom is a choice I fully embrace, filled with its challenges and rewards. My love for you remains unwavering, regardless of my professional commitments.