Dear Partner,
On February 17, we mark another year together—14 years of our red rose Valentine’s Day wedding. While some may see this as just a number, to me, it represents everything.
We both understand that marriage requires effort, and we’ve witnessed countless unions falter over time. Many relationships have shattered under external pressures, leaving behind only fragments of what once was. Marriage isn’t for the timid; it demands a constant reaching toward one another amidst the challenges of life. There are moments when our arms grow weary, when one of us might falter while the other stretches to maintain that connection. Together, we have navigated various seasons, balancing our efforts to reach for each other, even when times were tough.
I am grateful that we continue to reach for each other. As we celebrate 14 years of this beautiful journey, I want to share how profoundly you’ve loved me throughout every twist and turn on this marital dance floor. It is this unwavering love that has nourished my spirit and given me a message I believe every woman should hear.
You consistently tell me I’m beautiful. While it might seem simple, you can never fully grasp the weight of those words. I believe you—not just when I’m dressed up and feeling confident, but even more so during my most vulnerable moments.
I remember standing in the shower, feeling broken and bruised, struggling to cope with the aftermath of my surgeries. I was stripped of what once defined my femininity. Through my pain, I often found myself in tears, staring at a reflection that felt foreign to me. Yet, you were there—supporting me, holding my hand, guiding me through. You washed my body with such tenderness, touching my scars with love and care.
And even in those moments, you softly whispered, “You are so beautiful.” You repeated it endlessly, reminding me of my worth. This ritual became our lifeline, and your words were a comforting balm for my soul. Thank you for making me feel beautiful, even when I struggled to see it myself. Your affirmations have a profound impact that I can’t fully express.
After my sister’s cancer diagnosis, I learned about my own BRCA1 mutation. Following her brave path, I faced the decision to undergo a double mastectomy and a hysterectomy at just 42. It was a challenging road, but I chose to prioritize my family’s future. I would always be a woman, even without certain parts of my body. Yet it is you who continually reminds me of my femininity.
I am beautiful to you, and that truth sustains me.
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In summary, my partner’s unwavering love has been a source of strength, reminding me of my beauty through life’s trials. As we celebrate our love, I cherish the way you see me and the way your affection uplifts my spirit.