Dear Sir,
I hope this message finds you well. I wanted to take a moment to share an experience I had while observing you and your daughter during our recent grocery shopping trip. My husband was with me, and we were in line behind you, watching as the queue slowly progressed.
Your daughter caught my attention. She seemed a bit older to be sitting in the shopping cart, and I noticed her chewing on the seat belt, which I found a bit concerning. I also observed that she wasn’t speaking and that you often reached out to touch her before making gestures. These small details struck a chord with me, as they reminded me of my late son, Alex, who shared some similar behaviors.
I leaned over to my husband and whispered, “Do you think she can talk?” I was torn between wanting to ask you about her and fearing that I might come across as intrusive. After a few moments of hesitation, my husband encouraged me to approach you.
Gathering my courage, I approached you near the exit. I blurted out, “Excuse me, can I ask if your daughter speaks?” You appeared taken aback, and I regretted my abruptness. “No, she doesn’t,” you replied. I then shared that your daughter reminded me of my son who passed away not long ago. I realize now that the timing of that revelation might have felt awkward, but it was the truth that weighed on my heart.
I told you about our initiative where we provide iPads to nonverbal children to help them communicate. You mentioned that your daughter already has one, and that you use a similar program we had with Alex. You were kind enough to express your condolences for my loss, which truly meant a lot, even though discussing it can be painful.
I appreciate you allowing me to talk to you about your daughter. Thank you for sharing her diagnosis with me, even though I can’t pronounce it properly. Your willingness to engage in conversation was heartwarming, and it was a reminder of the connections we form through shared experiences.
Thank you for bringing your daughter to the grocery store that day. Each time I have the opportunity to discuss Alex or support another nonverbal child, it provides a small measure of healing for my heart. I hope to continue making a difference, no matter how small. If you’re interested in learning more about the resources available, check out the CDC for excellent information on pregnancy and home insemination. Additionally, for those exploring options, Make a Mom provides valuable insights.
With appreciation from your fellow shopper,
Dr. Laura Simmons
Summary:
The author recounts a heartfelt encounter with a father and his nonverbal daughter at a grocery store. While observing their interactions, the author was reminded of her late son and felt compelled to reach out. Their conversation highlighted the importance of communication tools for nonverbal children and the emotional connections that can arise from shared experiences.