Regardless of how you identify—be it SAHM (Stay-at-Home Mom), WAHM (Work-at-Home Mom), or WOHM (Work-Outside-the-Home Mom)—the reality is that motherhood is a challenging journey. The everyday grind can leave you utterly drained, but it isn’t just physical fatigue that keeps a mother awake while waiting for her teenage daughter to return home late on a Saturday night. It’s not merely the exhaustion that compels a mother of a toddler to spend hours online and in consultation with her pediatrician about whether her child should be taking vitamin supplements.
What truly weighs heavily on mothers is the cloud of uncertainty. We constantly question our parenting decisions, the adequacy of our maternal instincts, our children’s futures, and our overall experience of motherhood.
The list of concerns can be endless. Did I provide enough breastfeeding? Should I have chosen a different formula? Am I doing harm by letting my child use a pacifier? Did he have sufficient tummy time? Are her developmental milestones appropriate? Am I disciplining them effectively? Is it acceptable to lose my temper occasionally? What if I return to work—will they resent me for not being around? Conversely, if I stay home, will I be damaging their growth because my living room lacks structured activities? Are they socially engaged enough? Are they getting adequate solitary playtime and outdoor exposure? Did I make the right educational choices for them? Is this behavior a phase or something more concerning?
Everywhere you look—whether it’s online or on television—there are endless studies and expert opinions on the topic of parenting. One day, we are told that to ensure our children’s well-being, we must do one thing; the next day, the advice flips completely. It can feel overwhelming, leaving mothers on the brink of frustration, questioning, “What am I supposed to do?!”
Will there ever be a time when we feel confident about the choices we make? Probably not. Will we always carry the weight of whether we’re doing right by our children? Likely. However, I genuinely believe that this very uncertainty fuels our commitment to be better mothers. The core of this uncertainty stems from a place of love.
Love serves as a steadfast anchor amid the tumult of doubts and fears. Our unconditional affection for our children drives us to question whether we’re meeting their needs adequately and fulfilling our roles as mothers.
So, let me pose a question: Are your children’s basic needs—food, clothing, and shelter—being met? Do they understand just how deeply you love them? If the answer is yes, then trust me when I say: You are doing just fine. You have my assurance.
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In summary, the journey of motherhood is rife with uncertainties and challenges, but it is our love for our children that drives us to navigate these complexities. Despite the worries, if we’re meeting their basic needs and showing them love, we’re doing more than enough.