Lately, I’ve noticed a surge of hashtags like #staylittle and phrases about how “babies don’t last” floating around social media among new moms. My mommy friends are all about it: “It goes so quickly; you’ll never get this time back. Soon enough, your baby will be doing X, Y, or Z.”
And they’re completely right! It does feel like a blur, and yes, you can’t relive those precious moments. But guess what? You’ll have a plethora of new memories to treasure as they grow.
Now, don’t get me wrong; I soaked up every second with my wide-eyed, cooing little bundle. I even shed a few tears packing away her tiny newborn outfits. I, too, wished for her to stay little forever. But let’s be real—if she did, I’d be stuck mashing bananas and lugging around a diaper bag for eternity!
So, darling child, here’s why I’m not pining for your baby days. I would gladly relive it all if I had the chance, but I must admit, I don’t miss the sleepless nights, the endless bottles to clean, or the sunscreen battles during your first summer when you were too tiny for SPF.
I also don’t miss how fragile you were, cringing every time someone unfamiliar held you, worried they wouldn’t support your little head properly. Now, I cherish your strong neck, those arms that reach for me, and your legs that run and climb with such vigor. I beam with pride as you tackle the playground and twirl in ballet class.
Your urgent cries for food? Not missed! Instead, I’m thrilled to hear you standing at the fridge sweetly requesting, “milk, please,” in your adorable little voice. It’s such a privilege to have you as my little buddy—a clever, funny, chatty whirlwind with an imagination that soars.
Trust me, I’m not rushing through the present. I’m fully enjoying the sweet innocence of today while eagerly awaiting all the adventures that are yet to unfold. I can’t wait to be the mom cheering you on from the sidelines at after-school activities, sharing heart-to-heart talks over hot cocoa with marshmallows stacked high.
I’m excited for movie dates, experiencing your face on your first roller coaster, enjoying manicures together, and bonding over long lunches as you tell me all about your latest crush. Your newborn scent will always be etched in my heart, but each phase of your childhood brings its own delightful challenges and opportunities. I’ll hold onto the memories of every stage and be here with open arms to embrace the ever-evolving, amazing you as we journey together.
Because while babies don’t last, you, my sweet child, will always be my joy.
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In summary, while the baby days are fleeting, every new stage brings its own beauty and joy. Embrace the journey!