Lessons I Want My Daughter to Embrace

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Dear Sweetheart,

One day, you might stumble across this digital note while exploring the web, and I want you to know the essential lessons I hope you carry with you throughout life. I could have tucked them away in an old shoebox or a dusty journal, but let’s be real — that would likely end up forgotten.

I know I’m not the typical mom who keeps baby books or writes down all the milestones, but I hope when you read this, it resonates with you and doesn’t make you cringe. And please, for the love of all that is good, resist the urge to post anything inappropriate online. Just don’t do it.

Here are some things I want you to always remember:

1. Grace and Grit: While it’s essential to conduct yourself like a lady, there are moments when a little unladylike behavior is warranted. If you’re going to unleash your feelings, do it with purpose. Afterward, fix your hair, reapply your lipstick, and move on with poise.
2. True Beauty: You are stunning just the way you are. Embrace your uniqueness, but remember that your actions and words define you far more than your looks. Invest just enough time in your appearance to feel confident, but dedicate the rest to being someone others want to be around.
3. Authenticity Matters: My wish for you is to feel at ease being your true self, always. That genuine person is incredible, so don’t hide her away.
4. Choose Your Tribe Wisely: Sadly, there will be women who may attempt to bring you down. Surround yourself with friends who uplift and understand you. Seek out those who make you laugh until you cry and provide comfort during tough times. If you have this support system, the negativity from others will sting less.
5. Embrace the Haters: At some point, you’ll learn to stop caring about what others think. Until then, just know that it’s okay to feel hurt by their judgments.
6. You Own Your Boundaries: Remember, you owe nothing to anyone. If someone makes you uncomfortable, don’t hesitate to speak up.
7. Surprise Them: People may underestimate you. Focus on the joy that comes from surprising them with your intelligence instead of relying solely on your looks. Everyone can be pretty, but no one can be the remarkable person you are.
8. Dating Dilemmas: Your father and brothers might make dating a challenge for you, but the boy who wins their approval will certainly be worth your affection.
9. Dating Wisely: If you like someone, it’s okay to date him, but remember: you don’t have to marry him, even if he proposes.
10. Strong Roots: You come from a lineage of strong women. I expect you to uphold this legacy by staying true to yourself, no matter what obstacles you face. When in doubt, refer back to point #3.
11. Take Your Time: Please, wait until you’re ready for sex, and don’t rush into having children unless you’re with the right partner. And above all, keep learning until you’re employable. Yes, that’s important.
12. Try Something New: Even if you’re not great at it initially, give things a shot. You’ll eventually discover what brings you joy and fulfillment.
13. Change is Possible: If you’re unhappy with your circumstances, take steps to change them.
14. Get Fitted: And lastly, do yourself a favor and get a proper bra fitting. It’s worth the investment; you’ll be amazed at what the right undergarments can do.

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In summary, I hope these lessons guide you as you navigate life. Embrace your strength, surround yourself with positivity, and always stay true to who you are.