By: Jessica Harper
Updated: Jan. 11, 2023
Originally Published: Aug. 1, 2020
Today, Mama had a moment.
She shed tears because you woke up an hour earlier than usual, and let’s be real—she could’ve used a little more sleep.
She cried because she wanted to sneak in a quick workout before breakfast, but your demand for pancakes was relentless.
She cried when her coffee filter decided to fold itself in the machine, resulting in a mug full of grounds instead of that glorious caffeine fix.
She cried when she accidentally knocked over her coffee cup while frantically trying to remedy the situation, spilling coffee all over the floor.
She cried because her inhaler needed a refill, yet every time she called the doctor’s office, she was met with an infuriating busy signal.
She cried because cat hair mysteriously found its way into the refrigerator. Seriously, how does that even happen?
She cried because she ran a whole load of laundry only to realize she forgot to add the detergent—classic rookie mistake.
She cried when the clothes came out of the dryer, and she discovered there were no hangers left to put them on.
She cried because the previous tenant didn’t bother to forward their mail, and she’s now the unwilling recipient of packages filled with medical equipment that she has no time to return.
She cried because allergies are the worst, and her ears felt like they were stuffed with cotton.
She cried because she desperately wants to be done with her body image issues, but today was just one of those days.
She cried because technology is not her friend, and her playlist got stuck on repeat for the umpteenth time.
She cried because “Dawson’s Creek” has vanished from her streaming options, and even if it were there, she wouldn’t have the time to binge-watch it anyway.
She cried because she’s just so incredibly tired.
Her head throbbed from overthinking, her throat ached from yelling, and her heart felt heavy for taking out her frustration on you—her two greatest loves.
She cried because there was an annoying hair trapped in her bra band that she couldn’t reach.
She cried because the store was out of vanilla almond milk, and let’s face it, the original just doesn’t cut it.
She cried because she accidentally sprayed her salad with SPF 50 instead of olive oil—whoops!
She cried over a stubborn piece of apple skin lodged between her teeth and her husband, Bob, misplaced the floss.
She cried because she really wanted to scroll through Facebook for 30 minutes, but her computer decided to freeze.
She cried thinking about how she and Bob want another baby, but her body is throwing her curveballs, and life just feels unfair sometimes.
She cried because she feels guilty for wishing for more when she’s already blessed with two wonderful kids.
She cried after indulging in a massive spoonful of peanut butter straight from the jar, and it made her feel like Aunt Marge from Harry Potter after Dobby inflated her.
She cried because Grandma is 1,174 miles away, and she could really use a hug from her mom today.
She cried because the microwave beep is just way too loud for her sensitive ears.
She cried because she yelled at you to “be quiet,” which made you cry, and suddenly she felt like the worst mom on the planet.
She cried because she loves you—oh boy, does she love you—but sometimes she wishes for just one hour to forget about being a mom and enjoy the freedom of living for herself.
She cried because, well, hormones.
She cried because she fished out all the almonds and cashews from the mixed nuts, leaving her with a canister full of peanuts.
She cried because she put her heart into a piece of writing, only to find that no one wants to publish it.
She cried because life can feel overwhelming, and she’s just so tired, wishing today would simply end.
She cried as the tears pressed against her eyelids, demanding release, and she hated feeling vulnerable.
She cried because the weight of life was pressing down on her, and her mind, heart, and spirit felt like they were being crushed under it all. She cried because her body needed to release that pressure.
So, she did. She sat on the bathroom floor while you clamored for the playground and popsicles, allowing her tears to wash away the guilt, stress, and all the negativity of the day.
Yes, today Mama cried. But not out of weakness.
She cried because she is resilient, strong for herself, for her family, and for you.
And she knows that sometimes, just sometimes, she needs to break down to rebuild herself.
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Summary:
This article captures the overwhelming yet relatable experience of motherhood, detailing a day in the life of a mom who faces various challenges and emotional moments. It emphasizes that crying is not a sign of weakness but a necessary release for strength and resilience. Mothers, like Jessica, often juggle countless responsibilities and emotions, making it essential to allow themselves to feel and express vulnerability.