As you gear up to embark on your higher education journey, you’re likely double-checking your bags, supplies, and the list of new faces waiting for you. As I witness the excitement and eagerness in your eyes, I can’t help but feel an overwhelming joy at the remarkable person you’ve become.
I understand you’re probably not keen on receiving more advice from someone who’s been dishing it out since day one—let’s call it “Mommy 101.” But there’s a crucial lesson I want to share with you, one that I hope you’ve picked up over the years, even if it was more through my actions than my words.
As you step into this new chapter, filled with curiosity and a desire to learn, remember that not all lessons will be pleasant. That’s perfectly fine. I firmly believe in the goodness and beauty of the world, yet there are moments, places, and even people that will challenge that belief.
This is why it’s vital to take a moment to appreciate the beauty around you. Seek it out and celebrate it! And when you encounter those who have lost sight of that beauty or were never shown how to find it, don’t flinch. Instead, look for ways to share your joy with them.
When meeting new people, always make eye contact and resist the urge to judge based on appearances. Remember, true character reveals itself over time, and it’s measured by actions, not just looks or words.
I hope your experiences will lean towards kindness and compassion. But if you face negativity, don’t turn away. Apathy is born from ignoring the less pleasant aspects of life. I’ve done my best to teach you resilience and the importance of staying true to yourself. As you leave the sanctuary of home, you’ll encounter those who lack the strength to stand tall on their own. Age or circumstance may have left them vulnerable. Don’t flinch. These individuals will need your strength the most. Stand firm in your values, even if you find yourself standing alone. The path of integrity is often the hardest one to walk, but it’s the only one worth taking.
I hope you never confront true evil, as it exists in this world—not the fictional monsters from horror flicks, but the real pain humans can inflict on one another. If you ever find yourself in such darkness, please, don’t flinch. Ignoring the shadows is how they spread. Darkness creeps in slowly until unimaginable things become tolerable. Remember, no matter how bright your life seems, evil is never acceptable.
You’ve always grown up surrounded by love from family and friends, and you understand the ripple effect of one person’s struggles on the whole community. But there’s a larger circle to consider; every person is part of it. When tragedy strikes one, it impacts us all in some way. In a perfect world, there wouldn’t be an “us” versus “them”—just “all.”
Don’t lose sight of the fact that life is not only about burdens. We also share in joys and happiness. I hope you never flinch away from those moments, either.
Feeling overwhelmed? Don’t worry; you’re not alone. Opening your heart and mind can feel daunting at times, especially when you want to help but feel powerless. My only advice? Strive to contribute more good to the world than you take away. Trust me, those positive actions will create ripples that extend far beyond your own life.
Remember, you won’t always succeed, but you won’t always fail either. Each of us defines our own goals and how we meet them. So, don’t let someone else’s expectations dictate your path.
Finally, life is meant to be embraced. Whenever you see an opportunity for love, laughter, or happiness—seize it, hold on tightly, and never flinch.
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Summary
As you prepare to embark on a new chapter in higher education, embrace the journey ahead. Remember to appreciate beauty, share joy, and stand firm in your values. Life may introduce challenges, but never flinch in the face of adversity or darkness. Instead, strive to contribute positively to the world, seize moments of happiness, and define your own success.