As summer approaches, kids are getting ready to burst out of their school routines. In our family, we have a lot of kids, so our home has become the go-to spot for neighborhood playdates. Kids I’ve never seen before seem to flock to our yard! While I love the energy they bring, a few house rules would definitely help maintain some order. Here’s what I’d like to share with parents sending their little ones our way:
- Yard Only, Please: Our home is cozy, to say the least. I don’t mind the joyful chaos outside, but I kindly ask that it stays in the yard. Feel free to use the bathroom (please, no outdoor bathrooms!), but let’s keep the indoor mayhem to a minimum, especially with two of our kids still napping.
- Snacks, Not Meals: I occasionally offer snacks if I spot something on sale, but full meals are off the menu. Please don’t send your child with dietary restrictions or expectations of a feast.
- Thirst Quenchers: Water is always available from the fridge. If your child prefers something other than plain water, please send them with their own water bottle filled with their favorite drink.
- Sleepy Mornings: We’re early risers, but I’d appreciate it if you could hold off sending your child over until after 10 a.m.
- Supervision Concerns: Little ones on their own can be tricky. I have my hands full with my younger kids, so I can’t supervise the little ones alone. If an older sibling tags along, keep in mind they want to play too!
- Not a Daycare: I’m not a babysitter. Please don’t expect me to keep your child entertained while you run errands.
- Water Shenanigans: Water fights are a staple in our yard. If your child isn’t allowed to get wet, it’s probably best they stay home.
- Conflict Resolution: Sometimes kids don’t get along, and I may need to send one home for the day. If you come over to express anger about that, it will only ensure your child isn’t invited back. I handle enough chaos without parent confrontations!
- No Drop-ins: If we’re not home, your child shouldn’t be playing in the yard. It sounds silly, but I’ve come home to find kids here uninvited.
- Family Time: Although we love having kids over, there are times we want to enjoy family time without extra guests. It’s not personal; we just need our space.
- Homeward Bound: If your child is old enough to come over on their own, they should also be capable of making it home independently. Please don’t get mad at me if they’re late—just teach them how to use a watch!
- Free-Range Fun: I can’t supervise every moment in the backyard. If you prefer your child to be constantly watched, it might be best not to send them over.
- No Borrowing: Not all items are available for use. For example, the bikes are for my kids only. They’re expensive, and I can’t have them dragged inside or damaged.
- Leave Valuables at Home: Please don’t send your kids with electronics or other expensive items. I can’t replace anything that might get lost or broken, especially with all the water games happening!
- Open Communication: This list isn’t unreasonable; it’s just meant to keep my sanity (mostly) intact. If you ever want to host a gaggle of kids in your yard, I promise my kids will follow your guidelines too!
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Summary
Navigating a house full of kids can be fun yet chaotic. To keep the peace and ensure everyone enjoys their time, establishing some simple rules is essential. From yard play only to snack policies and the importance of family time, these guidelines help make the hangout house a welcoming place for all.