Remember when Hugh Grant was the charming heartthrob of the 90s? Well, “Four Weddings and a Funeral” has aged like fine wine, offering smarter, more heartfelt moments than your average rom-com. Here are 12 life lessons that might just inspire you to hit play on Netflix again.
- Your Own Wedding Season: Life has its own wedding season. When Charles shows up at the second wedding and asks, “So, who is it today?” it perfectly captures that endless cycle of nuptials in your 20s and 30s. Sure, it’s exhausting and pricey, but you’ll find yourself missing those carefree days when you could dress up without worrying about the kids.
- Some People Will Always Be Late: Let’s face it—some folks will always run late. Hugh Grant’s character is probably still fashionably late to everything, including his kids’ graduations. A sequel could easily be titled “4 Late Arrivals and a Graduation.”
- The Perfect Exclamation: When you’re rushing into a fancy dress, sometimes “Fuckity-Fuck!” is the only thing that sums up your struggle.
- Marriage and Awkward Pauses: The line “Marriage is just a way of getting out of an embarrassing pause in conversation” rings true. It explains why some couples who seem mismatched still decide to tie the knot—sometimes it’s just about filling the silence.
- First Marriages Aren’t Always Right: Not everyone finds their soulmate on the first try. Just like Carrie, who marries Hamish before realizing Charles is her true match, we often learn through trial and error.
- Hats Are Fabulous: Let’s take a moment to appreciate the beauty of hats. We could all use more of them in our lives, and let’s not forget Scarlett’s stunning orange and purple dress from the first wedding.
- Meringue Madness: The best way to describe 1980s and early ‘90s wedding gowns? “A big meringue.” It’s a classic!
- Every Wedding Needs a Gareth: Remember how Gareth exclaimed, “It’s bloody Brigadoon!” at Carrie and Hamish’s wedding? We all need a friend like him at our celebrations.
- Weddings Bring Back Memories: Weddings have a knack for bringing up the past. Think of Charles sitting at a table full of ex-girlfriends or running into an old flame in the hallway—awkward!
- Frustrating Choices: “Fuck-a-doodle-do” is the perfect phrase for when you find out your beloved is marrying someone else, especially an old Scottish gentleman.
- No One is Out of Your League: When Charles first meets Carrie, Fiona claims she’s out of his league. Spoiler alert: she’s not.
- Cherish Your Adoration: Whether married or single, we should all aspire to echo Gareth’s sentiment: “May we all in our dotage be proud to say, ‘I was adored once too.’”
So, if you’re looking for a good laugh, some heartfelt moments, or just a little nostalgia, revisit “Four Weddings and a Funeral.” And while you’re at it, if you’re considering your own journey into parenthood, check out this guide on home insemination. Also, for couples navigating their fertility journey, Make a Mom offers invaluable resources. For more in-depth information, you can refer to this excellent resource on pregnancy and home insemination.
In summary, “Four Weddings and a Funeral” is more than just a romantic comedy; it’s a treasure trove of life lessons about love, relationships, and the beauty of awkward moments.