Hey there! Remember when I was one of you? Living life on my own terms, no scheduled naps, and spontaneous adventures? Sometimes, I find myself longing for those carefree days, and I can’t help but feel a twinge of jealousy as I see you enjoying them. Since becoming a mom, our friendship has shifted a bit, and I wanted to share my thoughts with you.
I will eventually be less busy! I promise, one day my little one will grow up, and I’ll be able to socialize more frequently. Sure, it might not be the same level of spontaneity, but I’m committed to making time for you.
Let’s Talk About Exhaustion
And let’s talk about this exhaustion, shall we? You tell me fascinating stories, and then I totally blank. It’s not that I don’t care—it’s just that my memory is currently on a permanent vacation. I mean, I once referred to my eyelids as “eye covers.” Yep, that’s how sleep-deprived I am. But rest assured, once I get a decent night’s sleep, I’ll be back to my witty self, ready to offer insightful advice and remember all the little details.
I Truly Want to See You
I truly want to see you! It breaks my heart to say no to wing night or shopping trips. Every time I decline, it feels like I’m missing out on a piece of our friendship. Being a single mom means I take on all the parenting duties, and leaving my baby with my parents too often makes me feel guilty. But please keep inviting me! I want to feel wanted and included in your life. Every “yes” from me is a big deal, and maybe one day, I’ll surprise us both and join you for a night out.
I Miss You Dearly
I miss our spontaneous drives, epic gym sessions, and those nights filled with wine and laughter. I miss the joy of simply hanging out with you. You were my rock during my pregnancy, tolerating my mood swings, indulging me with ice cream dates, and supporting me while I chose baby gear. Thank you for being there through the swollen feet and heat-induced meltdowns. It meant the world to me.
On the tough days, when I felt overwhelmed, you were right there by my side. You listened to my worries and fears without always needing to provide answers. Your open heart and willingness to just be there for me have been invaluable.
My Love for You
So, my dear friends, please know that I hold you in high regard and love you deeply. Life may have grown more complicated, but you’re still in my thoughts, and I cherish our friendship. And to my friends who became moms before me, I can’t express how grateful I am for your guidance on this journey. I seriously couldn’t do this without you!
I love you all and miss you more than words can say. One day, when I’m not covered in baby goo or running on three hours of sleep, I’ll treat you to a few rounds of wine—trust me, it’s on my to-do list!
Xoxo,
Lila
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