Hey there, my sweet niece! Before anything else, I just want you to know how much I love you. Seriously, that’s the most important thing I can say as you embark on this thrilling new adventure called college. I might not hold all the answers to life’s big questions, but I do have some wisdom to share from my own journey.
Now, I know I might seem ancient to you—like, “how does she even use TikTok” old—but trust me, I remember being in your shoes not too long ago. Roll your eyes if you must; I would have, too! But hindsight is a funny thing, and I’ve learned a lot since then. So, as you prepare to take on this exciting chapter, here are ten key pieces of advice I wish someone had told me:
- Mistakes are okay! You’re going to mess up—plenty! Embrace it. Each mistake is an opportunity to learn and grow. Just don’t be intentionally foolish; nobody likes a fake.
- Be authentic. Stay true to yourself. If something scares you, confront it! Unless it’s a guy at a party who proclaims you’re his soulmate after one glance—then run, girl, run! This journey of self-discovery takes time, so don’t rush it. Your identity should revolve around you—no one else.
- Stick around! The first few weeks of college are critical for making friends. I know it feels like an eternity, but once those first few weeks are gone, they’re gone for good. Try not to let homesickness pull you away from campus. If you’re tempted to leave, resist! Instead, dive into new experiences, meet people, and put that phone down for a bit.
- Hit the books! College isn’t just about fun—though there will be plenty of that! Take your studies seriously. I learned the hard way about neglecting my GPA and had to claw my way back to being a grad school candidate. Don’t be shy about asking for help; it’s part of the process. And remember, it’s okay to stumble sometimes.
- Keep your options open. Don’t rush into defining your career path just yet. There are so many opportunities out there, most of which you haven’t even heard of! Explore, learn, and soak it all in. Who knows? You might find yourself loving something unexpected.
- Have a blast! College is a once-in-a-lifetime chance to enjoy life as a pseudo-adult. Make the most of it! This is your time to have fun without the weight of full-on adulthood.
- Be sensible. Make good choices. This is a classic piece of advice, but it’s crucial. Always think before you act—especially when it comes to drinking and driving. You’re smarter than that!
- Avoid toxic people. Even if they seem cute. Trust me, those charming jerks can be trouble. You deserve the best, so don’t settle for less.
- Prioritize friendships with women. Building a solid group of girlfriends will enhance your college experience. These connections are vital for your happiness. Remember, girl power!
- Stay in touch with your mom. She’s going to miss you more than you can imagine. But don’t call her to say you want to come home right away—she won’t be able to handle it! If you’re feeling overwhelmed, reach out to me instead. I’ll remind you to “put your big girl pants on and stick it out.” Plus, I might send you a care package filled with cookies—who doesn’t love that?
So, as you step into this new world, always remember to pair yoga pants with a flowy top—trust me on this one.
You’ve got this, and I can’t wait to hear all about your adventures!
Much love,
Auntie Claire
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Summary
This heartfelt letter to a soon-to-be college freshman niece offers ten essential pieces of advice, emphasizing the importance of self-discovery, making mistakes, academic diligence, and surrounding oneself with the right people. With a blend of humor and warmth, the letter encourages her to embrace this exciting new chapter while staying true to herself.