As I sat with my daughter, enjoying a delightful afternoon of pedicures and chatting about her upcoming kindergarten adventure, I couldn’t help but eavesdrop on another mother-daughter duo nearby. They were animatedly discussing the girl’s first year of college, and I exchanged a knowing glance with the other mom. In that fleeting moment, we both recognized something special; she was reminiscing about cherished memories while I was gazing at an inspiring future. I could almost see the tears welling up in both our eyes.
I’m not typically one to wax poetic about how quickly time passes, but there are instances when I wish I could freeze the moment, like when I see my daughter in her favorite rock star jeans and oversized cowboy boots, her hair in playful pig tails, pulling her wagon with one hand while making a dandelion wish with the other. Yet, time marches on, and as my daughter grows, I find myself compiling a mental checklist of important lessons I want her to grasp:
- Cherish Childhood—It’s Short-Lived: This is the time when dreams blossom and imagination flourishes. Play with your stuffed animals as long as you desire; hold on to the magic of Santa Claus for as long as you can. You may feel the urge to rush into adulthood, but trust me—you’ll have plenty of time for everything else.
- Embarrassing Talks Ahead: Prepare yourself; we will have some awkward conversations. Expect diagrams, unfamiliar terms, and a lot of blushing. Someday, I’ll share jokes with you about these topics that will make you laugh uncontrollably in the most unexpected places, like an elevator. You’ll tell people, “My mom is a master of great jokes.” And believe me, when you finally understand their importance, you’ll appreciate the conversations we had.
- Ask for Help: Don’t hesitate to seek assistance, especially from me. Share your joys and fears; you don’t have to bear everything alone. You’d be surprised at how much I can handle. And remember, nothing you do will ever change my love for you—nothing.
- Embrace New Experiences: Be bold and take on things that scare you. Let life take you on an adventure; remain open to change and new ideas.
- Practice Forgiveness: Always strive to forgive. Holding onto grudges only distorts your heart and spirit. Forgiving is not about giving up; sometimes, it’s the wisest choice you can make.
- Prepare for Heartbreak: Life may shatter you into pieces, making you feel irreparable. But trust me, you will heal and emerge stronger than ever. Don’t let temporary setbacks define you; allow your journey of renewal to shape who you are.
- Real-Life Fairytales: The fairytale you grew up hearing about is real, but it’s not about a glittery gown or a castle. It’s found in respect, compromise, arguments, laughter, and love. Remember, both you and your Prince Charming will have flaws, and together, you will face life’s dragons.
- Aim for Confidence and Compassion: Whenever you ask, “What do you want me to be when I grow up?” my answer remains the same: I want you to be confident and compassionate. Everything else will naturally fall into place.
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In summary, as my daughter grows, I hope she carries these lessons with her, embracing life with confidence, compassion, and an open heart.
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