When breastfeeding stories hit the news, particularly ones where mothers are asked to leave a public space for nursing, my curiosity gets the better of me, and I find myself diving into the comments section. Surrounded by supportive friends and family, I’m intrigued by the diverse opinions surrounding public breastfeeding.
One question that keeps coming up is, “I support breastfeeding, but why can’t moms just cover up while doing it in public?” While I appreciate the support, I’d love to see a day when we simply call it feeding—after all, it’s about nourishing a baby, not just the breast. Here are five compelling reasons why many mothers choose not to cover up in public:
1. The Practical Challenge
It can be quite tricky to cover up while trying to latch a baby, especially for new moms. Even with experience, managing a cover while positioning a squirmy infant can be a struggle. The main concern about modesty usually arises during the latch, and balancing a blanket while ensuring proper positioning can be a real hassle.
2. Babies Prefer Freedom
Many infants dislike being covered. My little ones often pulled the blanket off themselves—would you enjoy eating under a blanket, especially on a warm day? The thought alone makes me feel suffocated!
3. Eye Contact is Key
Breastfeeding offers a unique opportunity for eye contact between mother and baby. The design of breastfeeding encourages this connection. Would you cover your baby’s face while bottle feeding? That would seem odd, right?
4. More Attention with a Cover
Ironically, using a cover can sometimes draw more attention. When nursing without a blanket, it often appears as though I simply have a sleeping baby in my arms. A cover can signal “hey, I’m breastfeeding!” more than the act itself.
5. Shame and Stigma
Covering up suggests that there’s something inappropriate about feeding a baby in public. In truth, it’s just feeding—a natural act.
Some individuals suggest that mothers can pump milk instead of breastfeeding in public. While that’s a great option for some, not every mom can pump successfully, and not all babies will take a bottle. The logistics of pumping—storing, warming, and feeding—can be overwhelming compared to simply breastfeeding on the spot.
Others express concern about modesty, especially around children. If you feel this way, I hope the same applies when you see women in swimsuits or low-cut tops, as breastfeeding usually reveals no more than that. If you’re worried about your kids seeing a breastfeeding mother, consider redirecting their attention elsewhere when you see the telltale signs of nursing preparation.
Then there are those who say, “Why not just go to the bathroom?” Well, bathrooms are hardly the most pleasant places to eat, and many don’t offer seating options. If a mother seeks privacy, it should be her choice, not an expectation imposed by society.
Let’s address some of the more extreme opinions often voiced. Comparing breastfeeding to going to the bathroom or having sex is misplaced. Feeding a baby is a natural, hygienic act, unlike the unpleasantries associated with public restrooms. And if you really don’t want to see a mother nurse her baby, simply look away.
In reality, most women breastfeeding in public are just trying to ensure their baby is fed and content. The idea that they are seeking attention is far from the truth.
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In summary, breastfeeding in public is a natural act that should be embraced without stigma. Understanding the challenges faced by nursing mothers can foster a more supportive and accepting environment for all.
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