For those of us who grew up in the vibrant 1970s and ’80s, Judy Blume’s novels were a rite of passage. These coming-of-age stories became milestones that guided us through the maze of adolescence, challenging us and teaching valuable lessons about ourselves and our relationships. I can vividly recall the moments I spent engrossed in Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret and Forever. These books struck a chord with me and my friends, sparking discussions—when our parents weren’t listening, of course—that shaped our views as we grew up.
While some outdated references have been updated for new readers, the core messages in Blume’s works remain remarkably relevant, making them perfect for initiating crucial family conversations today. In a world where kids are often inundated with structured playdates, video games, and participation trophies, these timeless tales can still resonate.
Thought-Provoking Topic No. 1: Why are people protesting in America today?
In Iggie’s House, Blume tackles racism through the eyes of Winnie, a white girl eager to befriend her new African American neighbors, the Garbers. Reflecting on her own naivety, she recalls, “At the time, I was almost as naïve as Winnie is in this book, wanting to make the world a better place, but not knowing how.” This story touches upon the sensitive subject of racism, making it a perfect springboard for discussions with your kids about current events. With cities across the U.S. experiencing protests around racial injustice, this book can help facilitate conversations about the complexities surrounding these issues.
Thought-Provoking Topic No. 2: Why do people bully one another?
Who can forget Blubber, Blume’s take on bullying within the fifth-grade landscape? It showcases how one “Mean Girl” can dominate a class and turn on a former friend. Even with schools implementing anti-bullying programs, the reality remains that bullying is alive and kicking. Blume wisely points out that while some adults may cringe at the harsh language, “the kids get it. They live it.” Blubber serves as a useful tool for addressing the topic, whether your child is experiencing bullying or is a bystander.
Thought-Provoking Topic No. 3: What do you really want to know about sex and your changing body?
Today’s tweens may seem more knowledgeable than we were at their age, thanks to social media and the internet. But beneath that cool exterior, they are often just as confused about puberty. Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret, Deenie, and Then Again, Maybe I Won’t tackle delicate subjects like menstruation and puberty from both genders’ perspectives. I still vividly remember how Then Again, Maybe I Won’t opened my eyes to the challenges boys face—something I hadn’t discussed with my mom. Maybe it’s time to revisit these books with my daughter, too!
Thought-Provoking Topic No. 4: Does teenage sex always have negative consequences?
When Blume penned Forever, it broke new ground by exploring teenage love without chastising the characters for their choices. The story follows Katherine and her boyfriend as they navigate love and intimacy without dire consequences. Blume recognizes that today’s youth face not just emotional complexities but also serious health risks associated with sexual activity. She emphasizes the importance of responsibility and proper education about sexual health. This book can help parents open up dialogues about both the emotional and physical aspects of teenage relationships.
Judy Blume, now in her late 70s, reflects, “My daughter was fourteen when I dedicated this book to her. Today she’s a grown woman with a teenager of her own. I’m glad that some things, like falling in love, never change.” And she’s spot on—while times may change, the lessons learned from Judy Blume’s books continue to resonate with young readers today.
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In summary, Judy Blume’s works remain a valuable resource for fostering important conversations with our kids about topics that are still relevant today. From understanding racism to navigating the complexities of adolescence, these books provide a platform for dialogue that can help our children grow and learn.