To the Mom Who Didn’t Breastfeed

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Dear Mom,

Perhaps your little one never latched on. Maybe breastfeeding felt unbearably painful and no remedy seemed to ease it. It’s possible you received misguided advice from hospital staff, your doctor, or even well-meaning friends and family. Maybe you simply chose not to breastfeed, or perhaps personal circumstances made the thought of it overwhelming.

You might have struggled to produce enough milk and never understood why. If you adopted your child, perhaps breastfeeding wasn’t an option for you. Maybe you attempted various gadgets or techniques, only to feel more disconnected from your body and decided it was time to stop. Perhaps a medical condition or necessary medication made nursing impossible. Whatever the case, if the experience left you feeling crushed, I want you to know that I understand.

You may sometimes replay scenarios in your mind, wondering if a lactation consultant could have helped, or if a smoother birth could have changed things. You might wish your postpartum journey had been easier. If you feel a void because breastfeeding didn’t pan out, I empathize with you. It’s a natural instinct for mothers to want to breastfeed, and when it doesn’t happen, it can feel like a significant loss.

But it’s also perfectly okay if you feel at peace with your choice to not breastfeed. You may have embraced the freedom and convenience that bottle-feeding provided, and that’s valid too. Regardless of your feelings or reasons—whether they bring you regret or peace—remember this: breastfeeding is about more than just the milk.

Yes, breast milk is packed with antibodies and essential nutrients, and any amount you managed to provide was a gift. But if you didn’t breastfeed at all, that doesn’t mean you failed. You found alternative ways to nurture and protect your baby, and that’s what being a mother is all about.

Breastfeeding encompasses more than just nourishment; it involves the bond formed when you hold your baby close, sharing those precious moments of connection and touch. It’s about the comfort of having your child nestled in your arms, and you can achieve that regardless of how you choose to feed.

The stigma surrounding not breastfeeding needs to be put to rest. What truly matters is love. Let’s prioritize love over fear and connection over division. Reach out for support when needed, and cherish the moments with your child—inhale their sweet baby scent and breathe together.

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In summary, whether you chose not to breastfeed or faced challenges that made it impossible, know that you are not alone. Your journey as a mother is valid, and love will always be the most important part of it.


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