In a candid chat with writer Emily Grant, actress Lila Brooks opened up about balancing motherhood, marriage, and navigating the entertainment industry as she embraced her 40s.
What have you discovered from juggling family and a career?
As a working mom, I dive deep into my projects, but I’m fortunate to be in an environment where my contributions are respected—something that isn’t always the case for women in the workplace. After intense work periods, I take time off and have support, which is essential. My partner, Mark, is incredibly involved in parenting our kids, making the journey so much easier.
Do you feel pressured to be the perfect mom?
We all want the best for our kids, and let’s be honest, we don’t always get it right. Each day brings a new chance to mess up, but it also offers a fresh opportunity to start anew with them.
Does parenting affect your relationship with Mark?
From what I’ve learned, marriage thrives on communication. My parents had an amazing 50-year marriage, and witnessing their love was the greatest gift of my childhood. With young kids, it’s easy to become just co-managers of the household, tackling daily tasks. It’s crucial to reconnect, whether that’s through a simple chat every day or a deeper conversation every few days.
Is fame a barrier to living life on your terms?
There’s always a tug-of-war between who you are and who you become when the spotlight shines on you. Fame can alter your perspective, but for me, it’s a byproduct of doing what I love. I prioritize my family above all, and I’m grateful to have a grounded partner.
You’ve been an advocate against paparazzi invading children’s privacy.
I wish I’d been more vocal earlier in my career. Now that my kids have more privacy, I see how much it enhances their quality of life. Major props to celebrities like Sarah Jones for standing firm on protecting our kids from this chaos.
Do you keep track of the passing years?
Honestly, not really. I’ve always been surprised to get roles, and now in my 40s, I still find myself thinking, “Wow, jobs are still coming my way!” They may be different, but they fit where I am now, and I’m thankful for that.
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In summary, navigating fame, motherhood, and marriage can be challenging, but with the right support, it’s manageable. Lila’s journey shows that even with the pressures of the industry, one’s passion and family can coexist beautifully.