By: Jessica Thompson
Updated: Aug. 20, 2015
Originally Published: Jan. 27, 2015
Dear sweet son, it’s time for a little heart-to-heart.
I’ve come to the realization that I might be the enabler in our relationship. You see, I would really like to stop breastfeeding, pumping, and everything else that comes with being your personal milk factory. While I am incredibly grateful to nourish you with my breast milk, I’m just ready to move on. So let’s chat about it.
At just six months old, you’ve already developed quite the palate—some might call you a “milk snob.” You only want the freshest milk, straight from the source, and frankly, this jersey cow is ready to retire her udders. Sure, I know you’ll drink from a bottle if you have to, but we both know your preference is always for the real deal, especially at bedtime.
You’ve got your charm down to an art. Yes, you are the cutest little boy in the world, and that makes me an absolute softie (or maybe a “suckee,” as you’re the true “sucker”).
Breastfeeding isn’t a walk in the park. And pumping at work? Let’s just say I’ve playfully dubbed my workplace lactation room as “The Dairy.” You’re happily living the good life over here, with me pumping out 14oz. at a time (a feat that’s all thanks to you, of course). Plus, whenever I’m home, you nurse on demand, taking full advantage of my exhaustion after a long day. It’s simply too easy to unsnap this worn-out nursing bra and let you latch on.
But let’s be real; it’s time to explore formula options. You seem to enjoy baby food just fine—oatmeal, sweet potatoes, carrots, green beans, apples, bananas—you’ll devour it all! So why do we still need to nurse through the night? Can we at least ease up on that habit?
You have this incredible ability to tug at my heartstrings, wanting to be near me at all times. Right now, as I write this blog entry, we just finished your 10 PM snack, and you’re “helping” me with my writing. How could I resist your snuggly presence? You really are the cutest.
So, it’s settled—you’ve won this round. I won’t wean just yet. I’m glad we had this little chat.
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In summary, navigating the journey of motherhood is full of challenges and sweet moments. As I reflect on my breastfeeding experience, I understand it’s time for changes, but I’m also embracing this bond we share.
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