From the very moment you entered this world, people have praised your beauty. And yes, you are truly lovely—especially to your mom and dad. But remember, I want you to seek recognition for your hard-earned skills and passions rather than just your appearance. Shine bright. Be clever. Put in the effort. While being pretty can be nice, let that be a small part of your life as you discover more fascinating pursuits. Aim for brilliance, curiosity, dedication, passion, authenticity, humor, and expertise. When you combine your stunning looks with these unique qualities, you’ll be even more cherished.
Expect to hear “Smile!” from friends and strangers alike. I encourage you to express whatever you feel—whether that’s a scowl, a giggle, or a thoughtful frown. Your face is a reflection of your heart, and you don’t owe anyone a forced smile just because they want to see you happy.
When you were born, people sighed over the thought of pink dresses and frilly things, as if your arrival somehow balanced out your brothers. Some might say, “girls rock, boys are boring.” Just keep in mind, you can steer clear of those stereotypes, especially if you ever have sons (or daughters).
I hope you blend the cleverness of Hermione Granger with the wit of Judy Blume and a dash of Kurt Vonnegut. Dive into Doctor Who, Star Wars, and the classic charm of Murphy Brown. Approach reality TV and popular trends with a healthy dose of skepticism.
Women can be hilarious, and I want you to know there’s more to you than just traditional roles. You can aspire to be a surgeon, a leader, or even a club owner. You can choose to be the main character, the sidekick, or Tree Number Seven. Embrace every role.
There’s power in being an alto and in singing a cappella. Don’t shy away from taking the spotlight.
I hope you learn to spike a volleyball, kick a soccer ball, and run like the wind. Pink is delightful, but it doesn’t define you. It can sparkle and shine, but so can you in many ways.
Celebrate life with enthusiastic “Holy Yeses!” Embrace the unknown; it often teaches you valuable lessons and can even inspire awe.
Don’t worry about being liked by everyone. Focus instead on avoiding those who justify their rudeness. Jump into experiences with both feet—just remember to know when to land.
Math isn’t something to fear; it just requires time and practice. Understand that in math and life, some answers are clear-cut.
Learn new languages, navigate public transport, and practice saying “no, thank you.” Be mindful of your words; avoid using derogatory terms. Remember that other women are not your rivals, and embrace your femininity as a beautiful part of who you are while respecting masculinity in others.
Being concise in your thoughts is a gift to you and those around you, but listening is an even greater treasure. The word “cute” may stop feeling like a compliment as you grow, so aim for words that truly resonate.
Focus on your health and well-being instead of worrying about how you look. Indulge occasionally, but savor every moment. Laugh often. Apologize when needed, and forgive easily.
As you grow, I’ll cherish these moments, wishing I could hold you forever. But I know that wouldn’t make you a better person—it would just feel great. No matter who you become or what advice you choose to follow, know that I love you deeply.
Love, Mom
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