When I was a child, my mom would stand by my closet, a garbage bag in hand. “Keep or toss?” she’d ask, brandishing items like an old fairy-tale dress, a dusty baseball glove, or a faded stuffed animal. Most of the time, I’d say “no” and the items would vanish into the bag, destined for the landfill. Afterward, I’d revel in how fresh and spacious my room felt.
I’ve always had a knack for decluttering. The notion of keeping things that don’t truly bring me joy or serve a purpose baffles me. That dried-up prom bouquet, the letters from an ex, even those jeans that once fit—why hang on to items that merely occupy space? They’re just waiting to be tossed aside, making room for—well, nothing but good vibes!
I’ve tossed out a lot, and I’m hesitant to share the details, lest you think I’m heartless. Let’s just say, handmade gifts from your kids? I’d prefer they stay far away from me—unless you’re offering me some luxurious hair conditioner instead.
It’s not just about the old yearbooks (both of mine are now in a Nevada landfill) or the countless photos you hardly look at anymore. Once you let go of these items, they’ll cease to occupy your thoughts. My mom’s wedding picture? I mean, I get it—they had to tie the knot for me to exist, right?
Here’s the truth: you have your memories. You don’t need a yearbook photo of you with that regrettable haircut to remind you of high school. If my passion for decluttering isn’t enough to inspire you, consider this: letting go is liberating, and there’s a wealth of material out there on the subject. For those new to the idea, Leah Finnegan’s aptly named Throw Everything Out is a fantastic read. She hits the nail on the head: “Most stuff is crap. And there’s nothing more beautiful than an almost-empty apartment.”
For a deeper dive into the practicalities of decluttering, check out Marie Kondo, the professional organizer behind The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up. Her central mantra? Discard anything that doesn’t “spark joy.” Sure, the phrase is a tad whimsical, but it’s effective. That orange cashmere sweater that’s not doing you any favors? Gone. Those pink shoes that everyone loves but you think are ridiculous? Outta here! Even that lovely bowl with a chip? Let it go!
Now, do those sturdy boots from the yard sale five years ago actually spark joy? Not really. But the thought of not shelling out cash for another pair I might not love? That brings a glimmer of happiness.
If you’re struggling to part with anything—or if you’re already a pro at tossing things out—consider this gem from fashion designer Karl Lagerfeld: “The most important piece of furniture in a house is the garbage can! I keep no archives of my own, no sketches, no photos, no clothes—nothing! I am supposed to do, I’m not supposed to remember!”
I won’t sugarcoat it—decluttering can be tough. But Karl’s right: living in the moment is far more rewarding than clinging to the past.
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In summary, embracing a minimalist lifestyle can lead to a more joyful and open living space. The act of decluttering not only clears physical space but can also lighten your mental load. So, go ahead—take a bold step and toss what doesn’t serve you!